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asupon
I have notice when it comes to me talking to people I always get the same result. It would start out okay then it goes silent. Its been bothering me for awhile but I don't what's going on? Maybe its how I reply to things? or my responds? or trying to hard? or something? lol For the few I have talked to can you spot out something I'm missing or noticed something? For the rest I haven't talk to I can't think of an example at the moment but it'll come to be in a little while. Any advice is greatly needed cause I want to get better. Help me please?
asupon
Ah your right lol I wasn't really clear there in my thread. You actually did point out the problem which is with "Conversations Dying out" and I'll give a good example like I feel like when I respond to people I would be like "Awww I hope it get better", "I would do this" being too optimistic with something, When I think too much into a respond I would point out my mistake then apologize, and the silent is like afterwords I try to randomly say things to get someone to talk again or whatnot. That's just a few things that pop into my head but I hopefully its a bit clear and thank you!
riffaffray
Well sometimes you just have to go with the flow. Conversations rely on you as well as the person you are speaking with. So if you want conversations to last you have to interject, listen give an opinion, bring about another topic that relates to the subject you are talking about or delve deeper into the subject. It's not really as complicated as I'm making it out to be actually. It takes practice is what I'm trying to get at.
talamar
Yea just relax think about the next thing ya wanna say and try to push the conversation to topics you have a lot of interest in so can keep things moving smoothly. I have had same problem here and there and just thinking ahead tends to make this less tense.
asupon
Thanks guys will do! :D
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