Why Men get turned down?

I think nice guy is a throw away description. Like of all the positive things you can state about yourself, you're essentially saying hey! I meet the minimum of social niceties. That's like, to quote an cracked article, going to a movie that has the tagline, This movie is in english. Good to know but it doesn't exactly tell you anything really about the contents.

A very Englishy film xD? But, "nice guy" seems to have turned into something of a whiner term that many single guys use to whine with >.< "I'm so nice and all those other guys who have gfs are complete d-bags!" They could very well be nice, but they're unknowingly making themselves sound somewhat desperate and frustrated :x They hope that the simple idea that they might be nicer than some mean, uncaring guy will help them seem more appealing.

Mm, I don't think that's a general female trait. I'm sure guys get like that too. But yeah, if I was a guy, I wouldn't open with I'm a nice guy. It just doesn't inspire anyone to want to get to know you better. It makes you sound not interesting as a person if that's the most significant thing you can say about yourself

Well, a reason I think for why people fall for the bad guy/girl whatever, is biologically related. Hormones. It's also why people think make up sex is better.

There's a difference between bad and mean :x I doubt very many girls want a mean guy who treats them badly. Most girls like being treated with respect, but a "goody goody" guy may seem a bit out of taste for some :\ It's hard to explain v.v The girls in a relationship with mean guys probably didn't realize they were mean in the beginning. After a relationship has gone on long enough, it gets harder to see some kinds of abuse a partner may be giving off. Some feel they have to hope for the best with their partner and that they can't just leave them for a supposed nicer person. Certain bonds are hard to break, especially if they're part of your own.

@Demy You are referring to the mean and "alpha" type of guys As you said, there is a difference between these two types of guys. Most girls like the alpha type of guy who doesn't bootlick but offers attention to the right level. Someone who is above others but not on the top where he brags and all that stupid stuff. Someone who won't cry and whine over little things yet that will cry for very deep important ones. That only works for the majority tho. Not all girls are the same, I know. I'm not a girl, so I can't speak for something from experience to confirm such statements...it's just my personal scientific research that I did in the past years about a female's psychology. Also there is something else. Apparently when multiple guys say the same compliment to a girl, it gets boring and unattractive. If a guy says something a bit more different than most guys, the girl will automatically see that guy as an "interesting" person because he said/noticed something the majority didn't. This difference is kinda tricky...it depends how you say it and how the other person will do the interpretation. It can be something a little mean (but sweet at the same time) or reveal something hidden that the girl has (like an emotion). Of course, most girls are tsundere so you won't know when you done it correctly xD