Why women get turned down?

I think I get what you're saying. I might be wrong <.< But, that makes me feel bad for saying what I feel v.v I'll delete it if that's the way it looks x.x

I don't get why it happens but I put myself out there and generally get the same "type" of guy. It's either an attraction magnet I was stuck with at birth or something I'm subconsciously sending out to other guys. I really DO NOT like the "thug life" BS kind of guy but they always come swimming in my pool. Get out! Lol... but to say the least I have a set standard what I look for in a guy but honesty is my biggest thing. I've found plenty of guys to be pretty cool but then they lie about the littlest thing and it just annoys me that they feel I'd get upset over something so trivial. If you can't even be honest over little stuff then I know the bigger issues will never have truth to it when the time comes. The reason I'm single could be found in that little "honesty" bit. Most (not all) guys don't like to tell the truth. *shrugs* I could be wrong. Or maybe I put off a vibe that says you can't talk to me but to be honest I'd prefer it just be honest is all I ask.

Why? I've never actually turned someone down unless they were seriously not my type, or I wasn't convinced of their sincerity. I also do not like someone who I barely know out of hand to ask me out, especially if they're a nobody who doesn't bother to at least politely exchange pleasantries. Also, I'd have to turn down any über religious woman, I don't want to be the bad guy with regards to faith.

i've become quite picky in my old age. not just any girl will do...everyone has standards, and some are higher than others. so whether its the guys turning the girls down or the girls...it's just a matter of attraction. being attracted to a person's physical traits as well as their personality traits.

with me its pretty much a personality thing i don't care how beautiful a woman is i have to like the personality or else it wont work out so its pretty much based on if i feel comfortable with the person

my problem was/is past issues that harmed my self esstem. also I have trouble with guys that come on too strong. I don't want a short lived fling... I want to try finding the one I will live with the rest of my life.

wait... WHAT WAS THE QUESTION AGAIN? oh... yeah... hmmmm. well when i was in middle school i had this little stalker chick (who is now my cousin in law) and she would follow me around like a lost puppy and ask me out on a weekly basis... the reason i turned her down? cuz i didnt like chicks yet!!!!!!! i was way more into pokemon and comics to even notice females. guess every guy goes through the "girls are icky" stage. i don't think that's very helpful -.- but it's all i've got.

I know my problem is I'm weird. :/. The guys I like have no interest in anime but they are big in gaming like the stupid games like COD and stuff like that. Look I'm a RPGER not a first person shooter. And when I tell them that I'm into dragon age or mass effect, or even to mmorpgs like WoW or Guild wars the look at me like I'm stupid. Also I have major trust issues. If you get to close to ill either friend zone you (if I don't like you) or they think I'm a little sister to them. /: I also have so low of self a steem guys that normal want to be around me just want to get in my pants. The other ones....well I kinda haven't met any one else. An I think they have a problem of knowing I have to live with my ex cuz I have no where else to go. /:

The first reason I always get turned down is because I have a kid. The second is because if they can accept that they can't accept that I used to self harm when I was a teen so I have a lot of scars on my arm. I don't do it anymore and won't do it anymore but they don't look very nice... I have been turned down for being an anime fan before. He said I acted too much like an anime character (I don't or at least not that I know of). In other words he just didn't like my personality I guess. Maybe I'm just childish?