Ladies what do you think? Guys too!

So growing up in a house full of men and a neighborhood with guys I've come to understand the male species to a degree. For starters I totally hate it when a girl tries to hint at something and it's not very obvious. My question to the ladies, is why do you use hints... isn't it just as easy to just say what the heck it is you want from a guy? I mean they are pretty straight forward and simple minded creatures...haha. And guys, what is it from the girls that bugs the crap out of you?

just i dont like a girl that cant be flat out honest if you cant BE honest just dont talk to someone. and dont be subtle (no this dont work with all guys) but just say whats on your mind bc sometimes those subtle hints can seem like going for a lowblow it can feel putoffish. yes we know a girl wants to be just understood by a guy so they dont need to say much cause its romantic. ummm newsflash.... couples married for 30 40 and 50 years the husband still can get those hints wrong! dont expect a guy you JUST met or JUST hang out with alot to catch it if a long time husband cant with his wife just saying....

That makes sense to me. Just tell the guy what you want and you'll get a straight answer rather than worrying you pretty little head day in and out about what he may be feeling.

I think for a lot of women it's societal pressure. In a lot of subtle ways, women are kinda trained to not offend anyone. Even in modern culture, to be loud and abrasive isn't deemed a desirable trait in women. And especially in a culture where it's male privilaged, many women feel like they can't win. Like that Ari ... whatever his last name is, harassing the bejezus out of a female gamer to the point she had to kill her character on purpose to get away from him. If you fight back, those kind of guys go off on you because it's just a joke and this is why girls shouldn't play games and if you ignore it, they just get worse. No win scenario

i dislike when women think I'm a "simple minded creature". :/ even though i know you're just joking. it is pretty insulting nonetheless. xueli, we no longer live in a male privilidged society. its rapidly becoming quite the opposite. it's an outdated notion to hold onto as justification for successes or failures, especially for those of us lucky enough to live in America, as crappy as it is these days. Anyone can achieve anything here, man or woman of any kind. as for signs, i can read signs and subtleties very well, but when it really comes down to it, its easier for everyone if we all started being more upfront and honest about what we think, feel, believe, etc.

I could care less. Humans in general irritate me. Multiple forms of emotion. Seriously, tears are for sadness. Why would anyone cry when their happy? They even go as far to laugh when they are scared or sad. Even when the right emotion is displayed for the correct moment, humans don't know their limit and over do it. Humans can't simply depend on themselves and are constantly looking for a partner. I can't understand why a human would want to be at another humans side for hours at at time. And this so-called 'LOVE', it does not exist. It really doesn't matter to me how one live their lives, but don't let petty, disoriented brain signals lead one to believe such obvious lies. Without a gun, we would practically lose to any other animal on earth. Such weak animals we humans are, and yes humans are animals. And to sum it all up, One gender is not smarter than the other, nor is one more sensitive to feelings or open minded or anything else that follow. It is all in the individual makings of each living being. Gender may play a suddle role in these things, but this small fact is not absolute. Most would simply call me a hypocrite, but the fact is that I am the person I dislike the most, so their should be no argument about what is displayed.

I think that women make hasty generalizations about men sometimes. I don't really think both men and women would actually sit down and just talk about things. I do not think that being simple minded is a bad thing for us men, it just makes easy going and overall, friendly. But men can be complex even though they may just be easy going.

"male species" are we some kind of animal?

i mean technically