Whose on here for love?SERIOUSLY NO BULLSHIT!

@Elizabeth - Broken hearts suck huh? Love is not sex. Sex is something easily obtained and driven by lust. It requires no real emotional investment, it can be done anytime, anywhere by anyone. AND if Sex were truly "love", then divorce lawyers wouldn't exist, people would remain faithful to their lovers, AND Lets face it.... Depression would be a Male only thing since there isn't a woman ALIVE who doesn't have a few male friends who only hang around or stay in touch out of the slight chance they might get "a piece" one day... nudge nudge wink wink. Of course guys have the same thing as well... but most girls are not as aggressive in hunting 'rebounds' like some guys do.... Love ,on the other hand, takes time, compromise, and the investment of will to curb your own ego in order to make your self a better person for your significant other, and the trust that they will do the same thing for you. That is why when it doesn't work, you feel the loss, it hurts, and it takes time to come to terms with it. The same thing doesn't happen when it's just sex. Losing a Fuck buddy is more painful due to the fact they FOUND someone, while you are still alone, then losing the sex. Because Sex is easy (maybe not the 'skill' aspect ladies, but I'm rationalizing here, and that's a different subject), Love however is not.

@feydikan EXACTLY. Sex is so easy to get. Sex to me is worthless if it isnt with someone i care about. Hell, you can pay for sex. You can't pay for love. And if you CAN buy a girls love, then that girl is incredibly shallow. The world pisses me off.

@Darrellacoustic - It's nothing to be pissed off about. People wear masks, they say things in order to garner attention, or be seen, in some cases the exact opposite. Rarely if ever do the those masks resemble what truly lies with in. It's always a funny observation but I have found that ANY one who says they don't believe in love wants it so bad it hurts, keeps them up at night, and weighs on them any moment they have a chance to reflect upon it. Some may be willing to believe "orgasm = Love" but it's usually just a way to numb the pain for a brief period of time. But it will always come back.

I was here for love at one point, but I let someone eles ruin it all...:/ I feel for him and did certain things only to be his "friend" in the end. It honestly has made me give up on everything.. I know where you are coming from guys just don't seem to want much of a relationship anymore its kind of sad.. Not saying all you guys are like that though I am just saying most guys I have been with are...

@XXKanaKannaXX - I would offer this advice from a scarred veteran such as my self. Don't let a bad experience break you. Shit happens, mistakes are made, and hindsight is always 20/20. It will weigh heavy on you mind, drive you fucking crazy, and make you jaded... Experience is not gained by winning, but through failure. Learn from your mistakes, don't dwell upon them. And above all else don't let one ass make all the rest of us look bad... we do a fine enough job of that on our own. :)

I'm here to probably meet a special someone, looking for love? Hmm I guess so, but I'm not desperate. I'm more careful now, just got out of a long distance relationship with my 3 year best friend, we tried it out and a lot of things happened. So we're not even talking at the moment. Sometimes I wish we never tried dating and just kept being best friends. Otherwise Let love come to you, expect the unexpected. I hope that will be my last huge pain that I felt from a break up.

I am here to make friends and to offer any advice or help that I can! I wont lie I am here in hopes of making a connection with someone but I wont just jump into something head on. I wish to build something up that shall be meaningful and a strong foundation for possibly something more but we shall see. We never know what the future truly holds!

Love.... Lets define it.