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what do u do when you drop obvious hints that u like the guy but he still dosen't notice?!?!?!

akimaelstrom
If he's not noticing, he's probably not worth it. Like, if he doesn't notice now, he probably won't notice the little things in the relationship.
riffaffray
If he doesnt want to reciprocate those feelings he should be upfront. He really can not notice. And if he doesn't notice you might be needing a new prospective O.o You don't want his thick skull ruining the relationship if he can't pick up subtle hints. Well at this point obvious hints.
kaneanrui
You'd be amazed how a classic Japanese "love confession" generally will get your point across to the opposite sex. But seriously, dropping hints doesn't always work. If he's anything like me, he notices, he just doesn't know how to interpret it. I'm around girls quite a bit, and we fake flirt all the time. Just today I gave one of them a Dr. Pepper and she said "We need to get married". Is she implying she wants to date me? I assume she's just joking around. If I assume every perceivable advance is an advance, then soon, everything that's somewhat friendly that a female does suddenly means she's interested in me; and that's ludicrous. So be straight forward.
xueli
Well, if you've already made up the mind to pursue a relationship with this guy, might as well go all out. If ever you want a straight answer to anything, you gotta ask a straight question
noma87
The direct approach may be the only way he'll understand. I was the same way till a few years ago.
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