I know this isnt the best topic but for anybody that is liking the same gender on this site finding it hard to find somebody ple

i feel like a lot of people have no preferance 0.o atleast most of the girls here don't. I know how hard it is to find same sex partners however.

It can be hard. I'm personally not looking for a ltr with a guy (I'm bi but more straight). But i've became friends with gay guy on here. He's legal but I'm uncomfortably older than him to have it more than friends. He wants to room with me for Anime Matsuri. I might have to put on a chastity belt. J/king.

I see i personally helped somebody that i knew that had trouble dealing with his feelings for guy find somebody so im well aware of the difficulty mostly it comes from being way to scared of being ostracized or hated on for being gay though as on the site there is not many people on here that are openly bi or same gender interested in the male department anyways for sure and its hard to find somebody like that on this site but good luck to you though

I agree. A lot of people are probably scared of being open. People have their reasons and I respect that. Irl I'm not open about what I do behind closed doors. It's really no one else's business. But hey, if you open about it, more power to ya.

Im always open about how i am im not gay or bi but whenever its something about me i tend to keep it open all the time its better to me

Yes usually they do but regardless of how good you are at dealing with it healthy you always need somebody to help bring you out of it friends family somebody that cares for you i didnt have either i had a fictional character also you just reminded me of a show called baggage ;)