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Cheater: Tips how to tell you Boy/girlfriend is cheating on you

xueli
Honestly if you're thinking of starting a relationship already on the lookout for cheating signs then you might not be in the best state of mind for a healthy relationship. Signs are ambiguous at best, the only thing you can strive for is open communication, even if that means hearing things you don't really want to hear
metaljester
I agree with xueli on that if anything open communication may just reveal you being cheated on also sometimes if you get paranoid about somebody cheating on you and constantly berate them with questions or suspicions that can lead to them cheating on you so be careful of even making accusations of that
myinnerdemon18
Look my ex cheated on for 4 months and we were dating for six If my next girlfriend start to cheat on me I want to end it as soon as possible than geting hurt worse later
xueli
I suppose I should clarify that starting a future relationship with the mentality that the other person is/could cheat on you is not a good idea. Of course they can cheat on you. And they can cheat on you without leaving any signs. That's just a hazard of dating. If you start a relationship while constantly expecting that to happen then that relationship doesn't sound like it'll last for very long
metaljester
I see you have been in a bad relationship befor i have been in some myself and i understand your viewpoint so to help you i will offer some tips for finding out however these kind of things vary though but a cheater has signs one is that they dont pay attention to you as much as they did when they started out however keep in mind any other factors that may be causing that such as job or personal areas next tip would be to always try to strike up conversations with them if they pay attention and get into the conversation well that could prove they have definite interest in you there are some for you if you want more then just ask
metaljester
As xueli said though remaining negative or over suspicous about a relationship can lead to negative consequences
myinnerdemon18
I just want to stop it before it ending me getting hurt even worst
xueli
There are no ways to tell for sure. If you get the feeling you're just going to have to ask and hope you guys have a good enough communication that she'll straight out tell you and not get offended if she isn't
geeky_wierd321
They will start to axt quiter and more distant and they will always have some place to be even if its late at night or early in the morning ohhh...... and when there facial expressions turn from sad to happy just by a call, text, or after a night of suposidly hanging with some friends or another excuse
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