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kawaiidango
But i also agree with the maturity thing :3
pansexualotaku
ManLeftForDead - I am not currently in love with someone at all, but in the past, I had dated two older men. One at the age of 19, when I was 11, and one at the age of 17 when I was 12. It's just it always seems to trouble me when I think about it, is all. xD But guessing that much, you are really experienced with these feelings, I can see. And did you ever get to be with her, did she return your feelings? Now I'm curious. owo But if you'd rather not talk aboit it, that's fine.
pansexualotaku
KawaiiAttack - Oh, okay. Yeah, it's just a child of the age 8 could be more mature than an adult of the age 42, at times. Even though I would rather have an 8 year old wait for any real relationships myself.
simonsanbr
Im pretty much with Rezikai on this. It has a lot to do with maturity. I once knew a guy who was 19 who got his 13 y/o gf pregnant. While the law says its wrong and to a degree I do understand where the law is coming from, they were happy together. Sure there was some difference of opinion amongst the family about it but they all got on with each other and in the end stuck it out. I dont know how it all ended since I havent seen either of them for many years, but I would like to think it went ok! You definitely need to be on a similar page when it comes to interests since kids want to do kids stuff and adults not so much. It takes a certain kind of person to be mature enough at such a young age. From my experience, Ive noticed it to be those that have had a difficult upbringing. Personally, I could probably fall in love with anyone, whether they are half my age or 3 times my age. Im a loving kind of guy, always have been. I was even ready to settle down and have kids when I was 15 (that might be strange to some, sure, but oh well...). The problem I would have with someone underage (being from the UK that means 15 and below) is that I would find a relationship between very difficult to flat out impossible. Ive been brought up to not take advantage of people which is how I would feel with someone underage as I would be directly influencing their life at a time when its most crucial in their development. I can get on with anyone at any age from any background or upbringing, I always find a common interest and make friends easily. Like Naruto. But I dont think I could do it for their sake. People need time to develop and Im all for that. But at the end of the day, some of us mature quicker than others. I did so I cant rule it out for other people but Ive seen a lot happen in this world in my time. I just want people to be happy and do the things that they wanna do!
pansexualotaku
SimonSan - That is very well thought out. xD I hope the couple is still happy and thriving, because I see nothing wrong with it, even though in opinion, I wouldn't advise a 13 year old to do...that kind of thing at all, but as longs as she was happy and consenting, I really guess it's fine. But I'm guessing birth hurt more than an adult woman's birth would. Dx Really, I'm not all that serious when it comes to starting a family, but I guess if I felt like it was the right time to, I would. I rely on my instincts and not my companions, I guess you could say. I'm so mature because I knew how to browse the internet since I was what...5? xD But I understand what you're saying; It will definitely change the outcome of them when they are adults, but it could change them for the better too, just quicker than usual. And I found that I could fall in love with anyone, knowing I've liked my best girl friend, inanimate objects, and many adults. I guess in general, I could love any one, I just have to wait for my heart to desire someone. ^-^
yuusaku_godai
Wow, impressed with the opinions on here. Personally I know couples and married couples that are 10 to 25 years apart. When I was 23 I had a short lived fling who was 22 years older than me. As far as girls dating older guys girls mature fasters than guys. If under age it would be cool to get parental consent. Just keep it real and pure. The main issue would be generation gaps as mentioned before. That could be one of the biggest issue. I dont want to come off sappy or romantic but doesn't "love conquer all"? Lol
simonsanbr
I hope they are too. They were good friends many years back and it would be nice for them to have succeeded. It was consenting at the time and I dont think anyone was really expecting it either. But hey, it still happened... I dont know anything about birth though so I couldnt really say lol! The internet would expose people to things they wouldnt normally experience, especially at a younger age. That much is for certain. But how it affects their maturity is still very much up for debate. For example, at your age, I was still just playing football (soccer) and hanging out with friends since the internet wasnt really any kind of deal back then. A few year later when I had left school, started work and could afford the internet for myself, I was immediately exposed to all kinds of things I wasnt used to. Thats what the younger generation doesnt understand so well about the slightly older sort (Its not like Im 50+ or anything...). While you may have been brought up with the internet, some of us werent so our, for lack of a better word, innocence, was corrupted later on, well after we had had certain ideals and values drummed into our heads. Since then I have seen the worst of what this world has to offer (and I dont say that lightly, nor do I talk about it save for 3 people). I understand where youre coming from when you say it could change them for the better, but I feel that doing so, while the best intentions might be there, that they would be looking upto them as more of a father figure than as a romantic partner....
manleftfordead
@PansexualFangirl - Honestly I feel like a creeper telling people I fell for a 15yr old, I feel like Chris Hansen is about to bust down my door any second. Though at times it's like I don't care, I love this girl and I'd go through hell and back just to be with her. Like others said Maturity comes into play here, which even some non-mature ones still know what they want. Others will always judge and try to prevent others from their true love. For some reason I now think of Rose Tyler's quote from Doctor Who http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lfczx8xPKj1qazli5o1_500.jpg She is like what 19? 20? He's like 900? haha I know she's not underage, but just the "They keep trying to split us up" made me think of how others always try to get in the way by telling them it's wrong. And no I never did, honestly might be still trying. Though that would be the creeper thing to do, she just sees me as a friend/brother. Would never happen. :P Why I'm kind of on here.
pansexualotaku
yuusaku_godai Yes, it's very true. Love does conquer all, and it comes in all shapes and sizes. :)
animecountryboy
Love is love, it may seem weird for people outside at times, but in the end all that matters is the two are happy. i am personally open to anyone, i like people based on who they are, but i do slightly prefer females to males. i do not believe in "sexuality" labeling. my motto is "we like who we like" for me if there is a connection i don't really care about anything else.
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