Heart Bweak?

Last relationship: dumpee... I miss him a lot tbh... He was like my "Marshall"(How I Met Your Mother reference) Treated me like the queen of his world. Foolish me was so young and stupid mistreated him and let him go :( After years he recently msg me again that's why I haven't been very active on here... I think I should pursue him again(so scared of rejection but fack it right?! Better try than not)... I need him in my future. Ahhhh sadlyfe.

Maybe, like Lily, you can win him back! I think you should try. If it doesn't work, at least you'll know and you won't always regret it. I'd like to think back and be like, I gave it my all, it didn't work, but that's ok because I actually tried. ya know?

If you're in the friendzone, any personal foul is double the fine. Although how you let yourself be treated repeatedly and how you treat others typically is no one's fault but your own. Choose how you associate with people, and how you disassociate. And I just died afking while typing this. :C

I hate the friendzone speel because it means that the other person was only friends with you to get in your pants from day one. For someone to actually complain about that shit obviously viewed the friendship as step one of getting in your pants. It's this strange idea that some people have that if I do enough good things for her, if I act like a good enough friend, they'll see me as a potential significant other. Women (and men for that matter) aren't prizes to be won at the end of a game. You don't rack up points to get a relationship. I'm not saying it never happens that way, but people need to understand that the other person isn't obligated to become your significant other just because you checked off enough items on a to do list.

So what you're saying is... instead of saving all my tickets for the Dreamcast, I should get a shit ton of sticky hands and pixie stix. But yeah, I feel ya' brah.

I didn't mean to hijack this thread though. Haha there's just been a lot of that kind of drama happening on my facebook feed and this somehow got slightly vented on. But yeah guys, general tip, if you're gonna get into a friendship with a girl for the hope that it'll lead to a future date, if she shoots you down, don't start going on about how women don't want nice guys and whatever because you spent so much time and effort and how dare she not like you back. You're not fooling anyone but yourself

Dumper. People bore me easily.

Xueli thank you for that point of view. That sucks that someone would be that pety with you over not being interested. I had two different situations. Similar but different some how. In my case I was clear at first that I could be her friend or bf but to not start anything half hearted with me. Well things started with us flirting. After some time passed she wanted us to be friends. Do you think is okay to ask someone to continue being your friend when they are interested in you? Isn't that just cruel that they will eventually see you in the arms of another. At least that's how it was in my case. Although all guys aren't just trying to get into someone's pants the way you described that person being petty sounds like you're right about things there. Just thought I share.