What's the reason you're single?

guys who fall for me mostly don't like geeky stuff but he was diff, he was funny and nice and wood do anything for me lol (almost anything >.>)

After dealing with a bad life and bad choices now I’m setting everything right and though I’ve had offers I just don’t think I’m in a position to give a girl the proper care that a partner should, I mean all I’d have is my affection and that’s not enough for a serious relationship.

Okay Momo I think you left some things out but that's okay. There are a ton of guys here that meet those qualities and a ton out there. I guess what messes you up is you are in an area where guys are outdoor type. Not to mention some just would be too much of a hassle because of age. But no worries I think you'll find someone; specially when you have more freedom to move about and age isn't too much in the way.

I guess the big thing for me is i am a worrywart which can keep me from asking someone out :( i have always been the over cautious type. I've asked a few girls out in the past, but got shot down each time(not on here, but at my school)

KawaiiActack Chan don't let it get to you. Look at it this way. Now you know to try someone else and you won't be hung up on someone that would waste your time. The more you do it the better you will be. You can't be good at something if you don't practice ne?

I guess part of it too is because i was extremely overweight for a long time. I have slimmed down alot, but i do still have some left to lose. I guess another part of it is because i am a walking contradiction

Being to old, a geek and gamer, not being in the greatest shape, and not having the most out going personality. Most girls around my age arent looking to date someone like me. They want a more "normal" guy who is more out going than I am. Thats not to mention a lot of them already have at least one kid from a previous relationship. Finding single girls who are at least in their mid to late 20s who like anime and games is not easy especially living in a small town like I do. Most girls who might like a lot of the stuff I do are usually way too young for me to seriously consider dating and/or dont want to date someone over 30 like me. All you have to do is look at the average female age of new users signing up on this site to see what I mean! XD the very few I do run into who might fit my criteria are usually already in a relationship.