So... some of you guys out there.. What are you looking for in your significant other?

someone thats like 5'5 or shorter then me but has to be 18 or my age which is 25, Random, funny, outgoing, says something along the lines like, Dude what..? OwO. sheeeit QnQ. is some what loud but doesn't over do it, Laughs at anything random, and doesn't mind going to any fast food joint to go eat if were both bored out of our minds, when low on money or sometimes stay at home kicking each others butts on the PS3 XD, and most imprortantly she can't be a lire or keep me a secret from her family and friends

This can be a long drawn out answer, so I'll try and shorten it up a little. As a misunderstood gentlemen, and all to well knowing what it is like to feel empty there are many things that I can look for but I also understand realistically the chances of all of the criteria being met are improbable. First and foremost I believe romance is the most important factor, I love to be romantic although I am a bit eccentric, to elaborate a little here to explain further, what i mean is that I value the romance more then I do "the bedroom" and I will always stand by that opinion. Second: I would love for them to be into anime (romance anime is my preferred genre) and visual novels are not that bad either. Third: I believe that the female should not be dependent but rather independent in their nature, so this way I don't feel like I have a girl only because I can simply support her. Fourth: Someone who knows how to act proper (like a lady with class) but only when necessary as they should also be able to be informal. Fifth: Adventurous, but not excessively. Let me elaborate a little here, Someone who would love to travel the world, but is also at the same time at peace with not having an adventure all the time, sometimes it is nice to sit down and appreciate what you have before you try the "new" Sixth: Someone who would be able to show affection, not excessively however. Sometimes clingy can be nice, other times it can be a bit overbearing Example: I dated a female for 3 months, she wanted to marry me, pick out the colors of the wedding, the setting, the house "I" would purchase, the furniture "I" would get, the color of the rooms, etc.. That's too much, but more of it's late and we should sit down and watch a movie or anime in each others embrace, simple. I told you I would try and keep it short, but the list pretty much continues endlessly to more specific detail, I think the best part of a relationship is the "perfect" moment just like in anime where the two of you feel as though the world is gone for a moment and you can hear a silhouette of music in your mind. First things to notice about a female are eyes, smile and teeth. Not all men go strait to the body when meeting women just to throw that out there.

Similar interests, personally, humour Is a must. Somebody who is mature, but can have fun, but age doesn't matter. As long as you act mature. Looks don't matter much, but just have to be taken care of. In other words, I'd you look and smell like you've been at a con for 2 weeks without showering, no thanks. The important factors are honesty, compassionate, and loves to cuddle. I love closeness, and I love to be romantic. Trust in me, and I'll trust in you. But yeah, It will be a while before I find someone like that...

If I were to make it simple it's be 1) Similar interest is a must but if not being open minded to my interest as I would be to their interest 2) Someone who likes to have me around weather it be in person texting, or even phone calling but I can understand if they want their space but if they need it for days at a time and I only hear from or see them a few days out of the month it's not worth keeping that relationship 3) A liking of video game is nice I'd like her to being willing to play a co-op or a 1-on-1 game or I'd sit a watch or vice-versa 4) Hygiene is a must. I take care of myself I do expect that from any girl I'm involved with 5) Loyalty is another must I'm usually honest in a relationship and never expose anything I know you wouldn't want anyone else knowing 6) I'd like her to be kind and smart. Being a bitch to anyone who doesn't deserve it can and will make you ugly inside and out same for intelligence I find a smart girl to be extremely attractive 7) Looks don't really matter because I'm no looker myself but there has to be some sort of attraction between the both of us. 8) I'm not really looking for sex because if it's not love it's a waste I'd honestly prefer just sitting on the couch or in my room watching a show. These last 2 are just what I would like to have 9) This is just for me I really dislike being called dude or bro in a relationship (or by someone I like for that matter) it irks the living hell out of me so I'd like her not to call me that 10) I'm someone who has trouble opening up and being forced to do so make it harder and doesn't really help at all. If she can just give me a hug until I'm ready to talk then she can be someone I can confide in.

To within that mate that we all search for at one time or another, what do I find so encompassing that would quicken my heart? A girl who would not make me her life but a part of it. I would not want to be her only reason for being alive. A girl where she has her own passion for life, a passion that I could only add to, but not be the sole passion of her existence. A woman with initiative and self confidence, now that is a mantle of attraction that if she would wear among her aura I could swoon for. A girl who doesn't place me on a pedestal in her life above her own needs. I'd want her to have her own mind, not be cautious and feel as if she is walking on thin ice to see that I'm pleased in every way. A mate who when she makes plans with her friends she won't cancel to go out with me. If we're out to dinner, she'll treat the wait staff as kindly as she would me. A girl who isn't out to save the world, but does help those who come across her path in life. The girl I'd want to be with would be a human being whose sword in life would be her strength of character and compassion as her shield. Her spirit would be hostile towards traits such as avarice, dogma and ignorance. Her inner self would be composed of a soft yet strong heart, a mind that is opinionated yet flexible, a mouth that does not speak ill of others, and a desire of her body to be next to mine. Life is but a mundane task I feel to those who stumble about unconsciously and who anesthetize themselves against the people around them. A girl who pays attention in life and doesn't numb herself against the world.....Is someone who I can feel my heart would beat extra for to be with.....Someone with whom I can have a discussion with and neither of us has to attack nor defend our opinions, yet we can communicate honestly without need for a heated debate or senseless arguing. I couldn't possibly hope to do justice to describing my ideal girl with any more words, but the feeling of being with such a person would negate the need for any words, just the sense of touch could express the tender longing of the two of us being together. I just feel that we all get to meet the right person when we're ready for them, not when we want to meet them. I can only imagine the chaos and destruction we would wrought upon our own lives if we we're given what we wanted when we wanted it. The right person could come into our lives and what if we're not ready to love them unconditionally or care for their needs equally towards our own? We would most likely ruin such a romance and as a result seal our hearts away for the remainder of our life. I'd imagine a heart sealed away in life would be a cold, empty feeling to carry on into the after life. I can only hope that when I meet the right girl that both of us will be ready for each other. To those who have met their life partner, congratulations. And to those of us who are single and haven't met our life's mate, we can take solace in the fact that we have not chosen wrongly for that person right for us hasn't came into our lives.....................Yet.

I don't like this thread. To many posts I don't have the patience to fully read. D: No offence.

That's what their info section is for ;p Put the tl;dr version here! Lol