So... some of you guys out there.. What are you looking for in your significant other?

i pretty much only need to feel comfortable around a you and want the person to be honesty so if there is a problem i need to hear it so we can do some thing about it and no lies then im al good i don't have high demands if its about looks because looks change al the time if your beautyful but turn out to be a bitch you wouldn't stood a chance with me but if your nice and have a great character your looks wouldn't realy stand in the way

For me, someone who will love me and treat me with the same respect as I would with them. That wont lie about anything bothering them and will actively try and solve any problems (Im no mind reader so dont expect me to always know what youre thinking). Someone who I can be a nerd with. I like discussing all kinds of random things so that would be nice. A gamer girl would be nice but not overly important as long as they accept Im a gamer and need my gaming time. While being an anime fan is preferable, like the gaming thing, its not overly important as long as they understand that I like and watch it. Someone that doesnt mind doing some of the legwork in the relationship. Something that is important is they need to realise Im not perfect. I do my best all the time and I cant do any more than that. If you can accept me for who I am then thats good enough for me!

Pretty much shorter than me(putting arms over her shoulder makes it possible) nice, and doesn't mind my gaming hobby. Granted I will make time for her just saying the ones that don't mind playing with me from time to time. Sidenote: WoW is crack! But You can't get away from it, I'm just taking a break..can't get to far from my tanking duty.

I try to not focus on looks, as I'm pretty average looking, at 220 I'm about 30-40lbs overweight, and I'm trying to help with that. My requirements usually go like this: 1. Honest - I cannot deal with lechery, liars or women who are afraid to challenge me or disagree. It's ok, its part of being who you are. 2. Mutual Interests: I have to have a partner with mutual interests, depending on what they are, it makes the relationship easier 3. Healthy - By 'Healthy' I mean they cannot be morbidly overweight or have eating disorders, and they must be willing to tolerate my cooking (Love to do it) 4. Intelligent - Broad term here, but basically has to be able to point out the US on the map, and most other nations, not make ignorant stereotypes, be able to hold a rational conversation with me and some other stuff along those lines.

As for myself. Here are the basic/important aspects I consider: 1. Mutual Respect 2a. Someone that will accept me as an anime fan/gamer. 2b. A plus if they are the same as well. 3. Somebody that can hold a conversation 4. Someone that has a healthy weight (close to how Masuji wrote).

cantthinkofabettername.... in response Im just trying to find my way in life and hopeing to find true love along the way...my soul mate if you will. I want someone who is honest,kind, caring, loyal. Someone who can be a nerd like me and who shares common intrest aka anime/gaming or long walks on the beach. I want someone who excepts everything about me.... the good the bad and the inbetween and who isnt afraid to be a hopless romantic like me. It would also be nice to have someone who knows the balance... takes things slow and doesnt suffocate. thanks for all the responses its nice to see what you guys are searching for :)

Nice im seeing some wow players out there :) I play as well just taking a bit of a break

1. Good grammar. Yes, that's my first for many reasons. It's such a turn off to see people TYPNG LYK DIS ALL DA TIME. If you have difficulty spelling, I'm not going to hold it against you, but those people who do it intentionally- ugh. 2. Loyalty. Self explanitory. 3. Respect. 4. Honesty. 5. Trust. 6. Good Hygiene. Ok. I live in a small town in NY...This town is popular thanks to a certain near IV league college, but musical and fine arts as well- waterfalls... and lots of hippys in the summer. (THANKS A LOT GRASSROOTS). Look, I don't have a problem with what you choose in your lifestyle, I just don't want to smell it. I can understand if maybe a person is homeless and can't afford some things. Hell, I'm one of the first to help people out here. 7. Someone understanding. Please don't be judgmental. Like many people, I've gone through shit. 8. Kindness. ok, maybe that's not true completely. I love it when my interest is super loving and nice to me but not nearly as much to others. I'm a little selfish, liking to horde that kindness for myself :3 9. Communication. I love a good listener. Just like I love someone who can start a conversation at random. I'm shy as hell, and deal with a little social anxiety, so someone supportive of this and willing to help is a plus. 10. Ok. I'm not picky about appearances. Really, there just needs to be some form of attraction and common interests. 'Tis all for now.