leading people on

I look around at what "normal" women in my area are looking for and I'm almost the complete opposite of it. I'm a geek and not afraid to really admit it, so I try to find people with similar interests and hobbies to be around. Frat/bro/thug/bad boy wannabes are what a lot of girls are attracted to because they tend to have very confident personalities they find attractive but also tend to be ass holes as a negative. "Normal" girls would rather date a confident ass hole and hope they can change him versus dating a "nice guy" who isn't nearly as self-confident. It's why you can be a really nice guy to a girl, but she'll dump you for her ass hole of a ex-boyfriend after a few weeks of dating because she's still hung up on him and she's still hoping he'll change.

All I wanted to say with this is kinda get off my chest I felt I did nothing wrong except live 2 hours away which I can't control nor can I change at this moment as I have school work and my life her. this girl said this to when I met her for the first time and even over text and on the phone when I confronted her about the new guy she was in a relationship with. She said "I don't just want to be your friend", " You and me seem perfect for each other", "I'm just worried about the distance because I've had a long distance relationship before and it didn't work out.", "I still like you as more than a friend so I don't feel I was lying or leading you on". So ether she is lying or she really likes me and just really can't handle the distance because she " likes being clingy, or like being able to hug and kiss her guy", the only other option is shes stupid and likes both me and the other guy but because I'm farther away and am more open to doing what ever I can for the relationship she thinks its ok to date another guy up there until shes ready for me. so yeah I'm just really confused by the whole situation.

yea... ok mr peanut gallery. Just cus you hold american women in a higher regard than i do doesnt mean you can run off at the mouth like you know what type of woman ive dated, My opinion just doesnt come out of nowhere, lots of men share it.

Soulxevan As hard as it is you must move on. Don't waste your time with her. She isn't ready to be serious she is only looking for a fun time. Someone to give her attention is all. She isn't willing to put in any effort so why should you? In the end you'll just be sharing her with who ever is more available. Just listen to that and you know what your answer is. Don't let it own you man. I been through this a couple times this year. Different girls and I learn so much this year. Trust me on this. Now if all you're looking for is someone to have sex with she might be that kind of a girl although that's a stretch. It depends on you but emotions out of the table if you go that route. Otherwise you'll screw your self.

@ u rob (breakin the all male chain, ah yeah...) i actually got asked out recently and it was hard to come up with a reason y not cuz i didnt wanna say i had a bf, wood feel like id be like "srry me and my BF r bussy...." which sounds bitchy Q.Q also some girls dont mean to flirt, as iv said onna diff forum iv had alot of ppl think i go out with a good guy friend cuz of how i act which is 'apperiently' flirting but i think its just fun o.o theres no plushing up cleavage or licking lips but like rough housing and sex jokes o3o so the point of all that is some ppl cant help it, im very bad with ppl so i dont knw how to flirt and how not to flirt, i just do what i do

oh and about bad guys http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OYYfjFtYGsY&feature=plcp PPPPFFFFFTTTTTTTTTTTT

Momo first I have that same gun XD second I am inspired to be a jerk. Actually every girl that kept pushing to talk to me I was a jerk to begin with. It was only after they had me I started being too nice and they change their mind on me. Awesome video

well it is an awsome gun yes XD u have good taste! and yeah some girls do but u soodnt find an otaku girl like that i dont think, we tend to go for dorky XP exept for the yaoi fan girls...but there barely ppl let alone otaku o_o (let the hatas hate!) and http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1F4_LtGewQ =3=