leading people on

It is all the girls Iv'e tried to date recently seem to do, it seems like the have fun and think I'm great till something "better" comes along and breaks up with them 2 weeks later. That's why I hate people who lead you on, given the last girl technically didn't lead me on cuzz she said "she still likes me and wants to date me" but she is going to give her "boyfriend" of like a week a chance, and it's all cuzz of distance. So by her standers we weren't dating so she didn't lead me on.

Lets have an otaku men discussion on this topic. I run into this often. Hey I won't deny it I am not a handsome fellow. But when a girl starts to flirt with you knowing what you look like and all. Doesn't it get under your skin when she changes her mind. In my case they always start clinggy on their part. Once they have my attention and my commitment they back down and either coward or just don't see us working out. I have the impression they are only using us for practice so they can gain the confidence to flirt with a better looking guy. Although I know that wasn't the case this past time. It has been the case for me before. For some reason I can never explain what happens to me with short simple words. Why do girls always complicate things with me I wonder.

@Endless, Can completely agree. Women who are young don't really know what they want, and predicting them is like predicting a millennia in the future. I've had the same thing happen: I will be having a good friendship with someone, we seem to like a lot of the same stuff and everything but then when I'm ready to ask her out she gets frightened. It pisses me off, a lot.

Women seem more interested in how wealthy or how big your abs are than how you'd actually treat them. Not until they are older do they change that mindset a bit.

Actually I just had noticed that part about the abs lol. I think I could do that. Get the abs lol. I notice I no longer have a hard time talking to them. I use to get nervous the moment I felt an attraction. So if I get the body I can exploit my scorpio traits.Just wishful thinking anyway

Well we all have room for improvement, I think. I plan on taking aikido and getting a new road bike so I'll be more physically active, I should lose like 20lbs of fat and I'll look a whole lot better. But a lot of women I have met in life want a man who is a bit of a 'badboy' especially ones my age. Which is why I prefer to be the shota, figuratively speaking, to women. Older women seem to want to talk to me more and actually listen.

ah I think women in general have just changed. They have become what the frat boys and stereotypical men lust after, and less like what an honest man wants. The young women seem to easy and shifty, the older women either want dates with no attachment,random sex, or are looking for things the younger generations have a hard time offering. I truly feel relations are heading away from monogamy and quick.

yeah ive been wanting to get away from american women. To be honest id much rather date a girl from overseas. Seems they hold traditional values and will actually try to work through a marriage. When the goings get tuff americans divorce.