In Search of Athletic Otaku

Just to get this out of the way, I have no romantic interest in the OP. So... why TF are some of you putting this person on blast for being HONEST? Maybe if more girls that popped up on this site were more straightforward on what they want from a guy, their DM's wouldn't be getting plowed by 100 dudes with zero social skills and bad hygiene who look like they put all their ability points into WOW and wiping their Cheetos dust off on their sweatpants? Anyone that's been here for even a short amount of time knows what happens to ANY girl that shows up with an even moderately cute selfie. These girls try to be nice and accept FR's from seemingly any guy (based on their FR list being as long as the horizon is wide) and then they get creeped out with their only sanctuary being to simply stop logging in or deactivating. Plenty of users around here are well aware of this issue, and I've even seen discussions on how it can be addressed. Well guess how it can get addressed? The girl needs to police her own shit. If she doesn't wanna date a black dude or an asian (as a random example, so calm tf down), then she has the fucking right and doesn't need to explain why to anyone. If she wants a dude that's in shape and attractive, then good for her to say it out loud, rather than play the same fake shit as so many people on this site and say "Oh looks don't matter, I only care what's on the inside," meanwhile the only types they seek out and initiate conversations with COINCIDENTALLY have cute selfies. Honestly, what should the OP say? "Hi, I only care that the guy is nice and I will accept all FR's" so that when she's backed into a corner and has to reject or ghost a dude she had no interest in from the beginning, she has to face backlash and threats from that person for being shallow?

I've noticed how girls who are looking at times do post what they are looking for. With either in their info or a relationship forum. We're also voicing opinions on the reality of what might happen or inform what she might have better luck in. Is mo not a place where we ourselves can speak our own voice or are we forced to police our own responses just cuz it's not up to the tastes of others? It is not like we're dragging her through the dirt. We're just stating our own opinions. Some based on experience. Speaking ones mind isn't always sugar and honey cadet. Just like you did we are voicing ourselves as well.

*Sees the search for an Athletic Otaku* Me: *gets excited* Me: *Realizing its meant for guy otakus* Me: *Disappointed*

Well Cadet 1.calm down 2. most of everything here is said as a joke so yeah chill 3. thanks for your opinion 4. Yeah it’s obvious she can seek what she wants that’s how it works for everyone but not everyone is a nice human being

I mean, yeah, what Kam said. No one really blasted anyone here. It was just concerned or worried people. (or people like me, joking around XD) If it was a roast, it would probably be way more intense XD

When I say "some" of you, that does not imply "all" of you. Some of you are condemning this person cuz she said what she's looking for in a guy. Toxic: 1. If someone made a post in here that was a joke, then my comment that "some" of you are putting the OP on blast doesn't apply 2. The fact that not everyone is nice is all the more reason for someone to specify what they're looking for and not accept every FR that pops up