This may sound strange.......

Hi guys. so i've recently come to realize, due to the fact i have been rejected so many times over the years, that i have developed a fear of women. now its gotten to the point i can no longer look a female in the eye, let alone talk to them. my last relationship went south due to the fact that my girl friend was a bit on the psycho/clingy/known you for two weeks and now i wanna have babies with you side. it ended pretty badly and am still dealing with some of the after math today. but i think that that is a large contributing factor, that and the fact that the women ive been with have become mean and abusive over time. also, i was bullied alot by girls growing up due to obvious resons (my face and weight lol). i was wondering if anyone had some advice for me. Thanks Guys.

I get that, but for me sometimes it just isnt enough. idk exactly what it is but women seem to put up these barriers and immediatly assume that because i am approching you, and am trying to talk to you, i want down your pants, when in fact im not that kinda guy.

true but, those are far too hard to come by, i for one am in college, even the nerdy women have EXTREEMLY high standards. if i dont have pointy teeth and sparkle in the sunlight, they want nothing to do with me.

I don't know how much this pertains to you, but I think I can relate. Often, in the crowd that I hung out with at college they had a strict ideal for the type of guy they wanted. For them, that usually meant an Asian guy, which I'm not. Too often it seems like if you don't fit the image, you aren't going to get the looks. I'd try to think about what you consider most special about yourself and most appealing, and work on getting them to notice that.

yea i suppose. but women say that men are shallow but women have the EXACT same stipulations about how men should look, and how men should act. its madness i tell you. see, i am in the APA (American Pool Association) which is the largest pool like in america and is also really big in canada, europe, and japan. so i am constantly at bars and clubs competing against other pool teams and i have plenty of oppertunities to talk to women but, most of the time, the fact thati dont drink oram willing to do drugs is apparently a turn off. and to answer yourquestion Chizmad, i goto South Western Illinois College (SWIC) in bellevelle illinois, a few miles outside of saint louis.