Mommy's Character Creations and Stories

@swadian have you ever pinned the blame on someone for something terrible or bad you might’ve done and regretted it (or not?) @kenjiasahi2004 why do you try and argue or well... cause GD trouble so much?

Yes, there was a woman who was flirting with me that I took the bait for, whom I thought had separated from their partner, when I was confronted by the angry partner and so on I pushed the blame on her for leading me on, sorta, but in truth I was more to blame for taking the bait

She was separating from a long term relationship, like 14 years and was extremely needy of attention and support, wanted to feel pretty and desirable, so she used me to feel validated and like an idiot I took the bait and made a huge drama for nothing that still haunts me up to this day

@kenjiasahi2004 you should try and stop that tbh. I mean especially your antagonizing someone I really care about too :3 and I’d hate to see you get into any huge arguments and such. @swadian well I mean you thought she was broken up? That doesn’t sound like fully you? I mean you thought she left her partner then

@swadian I mean idk the full context but wormy is right. If you genuinely felt like she left and was being honest about that I don’t think that’s something you should continue to worry about since you had what sounds like good intentions and just wanted to be in a relationship and make someone feel good and as he said above got caught up in her mess cause she wasn’t fully honest

The thing is, both of them were my friends and I should had respected them throughout the whole thing, I didn't even liked the woman physically or emotionally, she wasn't my type nor she was emotionally interesting to me, I only did it because I saw an opportunity after I was lured in, I thought she was interested on exploring new things and I should had shut her down, told her off and told the guy about it, instead I tried to score and ended up messing up extremely bad for what I did, the guy threatened with beating me up if he saw me on the streets, funny thing is, the reaso for them separating was that he cheated on her

On her end, I'm fully sure she did it exclusively to validate herself, to prove herself she still had something worth being desired by someone, that even if she had to get into the dating scene again she would be alright, so on her end it was all about feeling good and confident once more after being cheated on with someone prettier, more mature, taller and more intelligent

@swadian well... swan babe I do agree it wasn’t such a smart thing to put yourself with someone you didn’t like in an actual romantic way and you being with her when you didn’t like her. You at least are sorry about what you did about not being honest with her but truly in the end everyone could’ve been a bit more honest and doesn’t change the fact that they dragged you into their relationship mess because both of them were dishonest with each other and while I feel sorry for the woman that got cheated on it wasn’t right for her to choose the first person (possibly) she thought of to make herself feel validated and drags them into her drama, especially someone that’s supposed to be her friend