attn ppl who ask for help

But that's hard... Anyways I think part of it is to gather the motivation to change. Just because they make excuses does not mean your words fall on deaf ears. Some people need a nudge others need a lot more

Yeah, I can tell. I probably would be too if someone went off on me when I offered help. Actually, I have in some instances and wanted to pop them over the head with something better than a slap.

I don't blame you Kitsune I was lost too at first. lol I think he was having a bad day when he started this. Oh he was I see. Yeah!.... Anyway Rob-Bozu if that the first 3 letters are part of your real name we are a lot alike. I know what you mean. I run into that often. All I can say is don't let it get to you. Always stand your ground and have a strong back bone when you know you are right. People some times don't realize that the help they find in others is only advice. The only person that can change their destiny is them selves. No one who doesn't want to work hard for their future will ever be able to seize it. You probably heard the saying "Can't help those that won't help them Selves" Is important to keep that rule in mind when helping others and never commit yourself emotionally to someone that won't commit and trust you.