Arc and I are engaged

November 30? That's the same day my girl and I decided to become a couple. Anyway, congratulations on your engagement! https://youtu.be/oyFQVZ2h0V8 Wedding invites when?

If I had my way we would elope and just get it done. I'm not one for big crowds and I also don't like being the center of attention. It's going to be a smol ceremony if I have my way. I don't mind a bigger reception. Arc really wants to have it in Savannah, and while I love the beach, a windy wedding isn't my bag. I want it somewhere quiet so might be having it in Bonaventure Cemetary, the cemetary featured in Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil. It's a beautiful place. (and you would be surprised at how many weddings are had there annually) I think I even have pics on here from our second trip together to Savannah. Couldn't go the first trip because of hurricane damage. https://www.savannah.com/wp-content/uploads/Savannah-Bonaventure-Cemetery.jpg https://i.ytimg.com/vi/Y7c4FLAzPQM/maxresdefault.jpg https://www.visitsavannah.com/sites/default/files/styles/hero/public/bonaventure_azaleas-1_1.jpg Reception is up in the air. Wanting to move it to the beach but finding a spot that's decently priced will be horrible. Probably sometime next year, preferrably when it's not scathingly hot and humid but also bearable enough to enjoy the beach. Did you guys even want this information? LOL Ugh wedding planning, what fresh hell this will be.

Congratulations!!!! Even though I am new to this community everybody seems pretty psyched about this, and it gives me hope for the future.