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Is there any chance of getting back together

loligod
The girl i was dating and am in love with broke up with me... She said she doesn't feel the same and there were some situational problems. Is there any way that we could get back together one day
dyadka_yar
Leave it alone. Once a breakup happens like that, there is a chance so small of getting back together that it might as well not even exist. The longer you dwell on it, the longer it's going to bother you and possibly get in the way of somebody else that will have a better connection with you.
loligod
It's hard... It just felt perfect
yaasshat
Yeah, just leave it be and move on. It's hard, but you're only going to hurt yourself that much more. Believe it or not, you'll find love again. It "felt" perfect, but it obviously wasn't, she made her decision and you need to respect that. Sometimes you have to love someone enough to let them go.
loligod
How do I stop thinking about it
yaasshat
Distract yourself. You'll never forget her and that's not a bad thing in of it's self. Remember the good times, cherish them and learn how to better yourself.
loligod
I'll try but it hurts
yaasshat
Yeah, it always does. Every time. Thing is, you'll more than likely find an even deeper and meaningful love at some point, too. For now? Talk to people, get that crap out of your system and just distract yourself. I'd also say,do t be tempted to try to become or stay friends with her, that'll just lead to more pain for the both of you. Don't hate her, but don't obsessively think about her or all the unanswered questions. Was she your first love?
loligod
She was the first one that was really serious ig, like the one before her was about 4 months but not a lot happened, this was about 6 and I lost my virginity to her
loligod
Like the thing is we talked all day every day up until about two weeks ago and it never got boring but something happened and we suddenly were only able to talk like an hour a day and that's when this happened
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