What makes YOU attracted to someone

Saw this post first and decided to go with what I'm aware of regarding attraction, though this depends on what kind of attraction we're on about. However, I probably overthought this and may have gone into rather extensive detail. For that I apologise for the wall of text. If it's someone (namely, a female, given that specific) I'm intending to pick for a relationship: I may phrase this a little strangely, so bare with. I've sorted it into a sort of 'patch notes style' list. -Physique/appearance. If I'm going to be specific, I don't really mind much on this front, though I seem to be fixated on phrases like 'thicc thighs save lives', 'bigger is better', and something about how one's bosom holds a man's dreams. That means I honestly don't mind about their weight, and should imply that I tend to be quite into hugs. -Personality/way of thinking. I'd be most compatible with people with similar mindsets or stereotype conformities that would make them 'nerds', 'weebs', 'otaku', or similarly invested in fiction enough to ramble about a given universe to great lengths... ...And probably the type who'd fit phrases like 'understanding, negotiable, clingy' while also at times wanting to show me things of their own - or even help with things such as cooking, perhaps? -Hobbies and interests. The dealbreaker for me is if they're the sporty sort; I'm more of an indoors, reserved individual who sees no reason to exit the home unless it's necessary or required. I'd also prefer them to at least be the sort who enjoy similar hobbies and interests to my own enough that if they aren't 'cultured' already, I -could- try to introduce them to it, and observe the results. ...I suppose that's partly why I'm here. It really varys from person to person; to make an analogy of this, I tend to want the pages rather than the cover of a book, as the cover is more a bonus and a shield to protect the pages. There's more I'd say but it'd look awkward if I was to put it all here - especially the fantasies about how they would come across me. If it's just another person: -Skip. -Personality/way of thinking. Them speaking to me first would be a surprise, as I'm usually neigh-invisible to the people around me for a reason I've narrowed up to 'uncontrollable stealth mechanics'. Sometimes I may try to spark conversation depending on if they've got a discussion going on that's of interest to me or have merch of known games/franchises/etc... -Hobbies and interests. For them to be more than just the odd conversation, they'd have to be into videogames and be on the same platforms I am on in order for them to 'persist' as an acquaintance. Then again, a lot of people I thought could be friends that I met online apparently talked behind my back, which I was entirely unaware of at the time, plus how society is incredulously 'fragile' on many aspects - enough to be offended by merely being -looked- at - as of this decade... Yeah, that's another reason I refuse to /social. Plus the loss of common sense. It almost gives me a headache. But we're here to talk about what we, as individuals, find attractive of-and-in others. I hope whoever reads this finds it of some use and isn't weirded/awkwarded out by the above content.

ah rennik,, this was nice, its literally what attracts you. this question isn't very specific in how you answer, it was an interesting response ^^

^ https://i.imgflip.com/22n2jn.jpg?a441696 Now i will never know what she is attracted to.

hm interests is a big one for me as it should be with alot of people if someone u meet doesn't like the things u like it can get sour really quick dont we all know that though and ofc looks do matter somewhat but mainly interests and personality

Looks are just the icing. If it's a good icing, it makes the cake better, if it's not, scrape it to the side and enjoy your fucking cake.

Im really attracted to intelligence and girls that can handle themselves. I dont like people that act pathetic and need a Knight a shining Armour to do everything for them.

A nice and kind heart, that always wants to help others, but still can stand up for themselves when it count. Also that they aren't afraid to get their hands dirty helps a lot.

Idk I just meet a person get to know them and I’m like damn they cool, I don’t really have standards or anything cuz I think it’s stupid because of standards you could be missing out on the love of your life