What do you find attractive?

@solid_snake95 Absolutely! But the way people are speaking of this is, "I knew a guy age 70 married to a 45 year old woman" so I now compare it to a 13 year old getting scouted by a 30 year old. - That's how I'm reading these comments and I feel that needs to be clarified.

Haha, well there are plenty of sugar mommas out there too. I've known plenty of way older women chasing the younger men. Again, my brother's wife is almost a decade older than him, but he was already 33 at the time they met.

Again, relationships are weird. Don't think I've ever met a relationship that didn't have odd ways of going about it. - So to end my piece. I agree children have no business being scouted by adults. I won't disagree there. Just please don't paint older adults as "trouble" because they were talking to other adults.

I didn't say my coworker was trouble. He was probably 45 and she was 18 or something. I know he is old fashioned so he would not be a pedo.

I'm guessing if you asked them they probably met way later than that. She was probably already late 20's early 30's is my assumption. - Had he said how long they had been married?

Alright. That's about 20 years roughly. So subtract 75 from 20 and that makes him 55. She would have been around mid 20's herself.