Cheating?

I just found out my husband is texting several other girls. All of which are ex’s. He said nothing has happened but I don’t know for sure. I need some advice for what to do

Keeping in touch with an ex isn't inherently wrong, but keeping it a secret from you is. If that's the case his motivations are clearly ill-intentioned.

normally id say dump his ass but its a husband, so thats trickier have you read the messages? do they say anything touchy feeling? are they just friendly chats? the main problem is not that these girls are his exes, you can stay friends with exes, but that he didnt tell you and i can image he didnt tell you for a reason really sorry to hear about this, hopefully you can sit down with him and try and get to the bottom of this i really hope somehow you can manage to work through this goodluck

I agree, you'd have to sit down and talk with him about it and tell him how it makes you feel. If he kept it from you it is wrong he did that. Wish you the best

It’s a weird spot to be in, I get that. You don’t want to be the one that jumps to conclusions, but you definitely want to at least try to talk about it otherwise it will eat at you and make you angrier overtime. I had an ex who consistently hanged out with and texted exes without me knowing, though all my friends were aware, and eventually I was personally aware. She would never admit it or say anything about it which built my frustration slowly. At first I thought it would be best to just keep quiet because I didn’t want to cause anything, but eventually I found myself needing to push to talk about it. By then I was already fed up and annoyed and soon after she was back with one of those exes a few days after we broke up from our 3 year relationship. I can’t say enough that if you already feel concerned now, you should tackle the issue before it gets out of hand and your frustration gets the best of you. Perhaps talking now might clear up any confusions, and/or help you to know what to do next. Feel Better!!!!

Thanks everyone for your advice. He got pretty drunk tonight and I can’t really talk to him when he’s like this, so I guess I’ll try to talk to him tomorrow. It sucks but I’ll be fine one way or another!

Big red flag! Try being very clear exposing all the points that make you uncomfortable in all of this. Since there are multiple girls he is talking to it doesn’t seem to be just a random conversation or anything of sorts. Worst case scenario (like if he denies everything) take yourself sometime and have a break. It’s a shity situation. Hope you feel better.