HOW TO GET A WEEB GF

I always liked the natural approach. That is, you both are human and you both are seeking a connection. In other words, don't pressure yourself into thinking you have to do some sort of Konami code, but instead just feel things out. They'll more than likely be doing the same thing. Now, that above mentioned connection does not have to be a romantic one. Focus on just getting familiar with them and letting them know who you really are. If you like anime, broach the topic and see where it goes from there. If they don't, so what? There are more interests and more that make up a person than one individual topic could ever encompass. The most important factor is, just relax and enjoy the ride, even if you feel the ride has ended prematurely. Every experience is just more to add into your experience points bank. Be kind, be friendly and be you.

Go in expecting nothing and just treat her like a human being instead of like a trophy your trying to earn. Being friends is the first step to any kind of relationship and just work up from there. Just don’t get creepy and don’t expect it to work out until you have enough signs that it will. Make sure your interested in the same stuff, start a convo about hobbies or other people you both know. But it all depends on the girl. All comes down to just treating her like you would anyone else and forming a connection. Then moving on from there. Also don’t make the mistake that just because she is talking to you make you think that she likes you. Some people are naturally flirty without realizing it, and don’t mean for it to come off that way even tho it does. Oh most importantly tho... be yourself from the start. Don’t try to put on a persona just to try to make urself seem cool or like ur a better person then you are. It might get you in the door but it will usually end up with that door being slammed in your face because no one can keep up a persona 24/7 especially with someone your trying to possibly spend the rest of your life with. Hmmmmm think that about sums up most of it.

just be yourself, unless of course if "yourself" is more or less industrial grade pussy repellent. That's when you have to do some self-reflection and put in effort to not change yourself to the point that you become someone else entirely, but become a better version of yourself. Identify and fix poor habits that you may have, work on socializing and confidence, pick up new things that interest you, etc And of course the points that were already mentioned here, like never go into anything expecting a payoff just because you gave them the time of day and more importantly people handle things like relationships differently, so even if the interest is mutual things may take time. Like they could have just had a bad breakup, is in a bad place in life at the moment, or just is the type that takes time to build up a friendship before doing anything serious. Never get impatient unless you really don't see things going anywhere at all.

Girls can be good for relationship advice but on this question they don't seem to really understand what they actually want. "Be nice to her, ask her about herself, don't get mad if she doesn't respond right away". These are directions on how to get friendzoned, not how to get a gf. Ask yourself. If I was the girl of my dreams, could I really be blamed for not noticing right away what a great guy I am? Yes you need to be able to have enjoyable conversations with girls. But girls don't respect a guy who puts them on a pedestal. Most of them have self-confidence issues and so they want lots of "followers" who they can look down on, but will go far out of their way to chase the confident asshole who doesn't give them what they want. To be clear, I'm not saying to be an asshole to women. It does sort of work, but it feels wrong to me, and I wish the women who get caught up in that delusion would just die off. What I'm saying goes back to the "imagine if you were your dream girl" part. What you need to do is go on amazon and buy some makeup and girls clothes... Just kidding. It takes 6 months of diligence at the gym to see noticeable results. It takes intelligence to wade through health and nutrition info and pick the truth from the lies. These things will improve your appearance, mental health, and confidence, and give you the stability-of-self to where you don't need to be an asshole for her to know you could walk away at any moment. We guys have it comparatively easy. Being unattractive is something we can change. Girls don't have that option, so you can sort of understand why they'd have self confidence issues.