Can't find anyone to connect with >_<

Wow people here are very bad at giving advice if you are looking for real love, you are here wrong anyway. Meeting people in real life is allways better because it's much harder for people to be dishonest and fake their character. Also before you want to be loved by others, you have to learn to love yourself first. Just take care and keep improving yourself And people will chase you. SO LISTEN TO ME : cut all that " just being yourself" crap. Don't be yourself, BE BETTER!

@bruce that was pretty good dude. I agree be the best you that you can be and you will find someone dating irl has pros and cons. Its much harder for people to open up face to face. But online you can lie and so forth. But dating semi-long distance you can get the best of both worlds i think.

Also all the people who said " just being yourself" are either lazy or arrogance as fuck. Wne are living in a social environment, you not gonna adapt and improve you will turn to an outcast, so simple Is that

I agree that meeting people in real life is better, but you're incredibly crass and arrogant. Ever heard of the Dunning-Krugger effect?

Well i mean it isnt lazy, there are ways to improve. If you arent meeting enough people then its prob cuz you dont put yourself out there. but saying not to be yourself is counterproductive. You have to be yourself. If you arent you then who are you at the end of the day? Are you a person that caters to other people to be liked? Or are you unique and different?

@bruce Sorry mate but that's just a flat out paradox just to sound like you know what you talking about. Being yourself and self improvement are directly linked. You can have no meaningful change if you have no self identity to guide what you plan to improve. Improve yourself, yes, but use the image of who you want to be direct your efforts and actions. That way you are likely to be attractive to someone compatible. But only adjacently relative to what this thread is about anyway. Waiting for people to chase you because you are so awesome is a narc's hope.