Can't find anyone to connect with >_<

I give people a chance, but I always have a inkling feeling that we aren't gonna get along in that way, whether my intuition hits me within a day or month or whatever. I'm shy but I definitely try to get the conversation going coz I am determined but I just...you can't force this type of thing T_T

I feel you tbh, i go through the same sort of thing as well. Like "this person is a really great friend, could be a really great girlfriend, but idk if they could be MY really great girlfriend" not exactly a friendzone but more of looking out for yourself and avoiding a relationship that wont end up as amazing as you thought Still Good to give people a chance, i wish you luck tbh.

^exactly! like you can't force love lol. and yes maybe it could work where you grow to love someone, but as ive probably said many times, the age of child bearing is among us and we aint got no timmeeeeee :DDDDDD anyways, when you know someone as a friend for a long time, you pretty much know what they're like and all you have to do is insert yourself in a scenario with you and them as a couple, and boom...conclusion >_&lt;

True true you gotta start off as friends first. Some people i feel latch onto people and say they like them cuz they are scared of loneliness. Then later on they find out it doesnt work cuz you get to know them better. Its a double edged sword tho, something you can only learn from a person through dating and others lay all the cards out on the table prior and you have no surprises going into a relationship. Dating isnt easy XD