How much age difference can you tolerate?

As long as they're legal and ain't as old as my dear old mum then I don't have issues. But a 5 year gap is what I'd prefer, anything over that might be still be a bit much for me.

For me it's 18-26 years old that's my age limit. If someone older then 27 nope. I never been into anyone older then 18 and up. ._. Of course as long they're legal.

I've always been into older guys but girls around my age lol Right now my age gap with my boo is 7 years I think.

Eh, it depends. I feel uncomfortable with people under 20, as freshly baked 18 year olds is a bit weird to me. My oldest ex is 6 years older than me, so I guess that‘s my boundary for most people, but I also used to like a 12 years older person a lot, as we clicked so well. In the end it depends on the mental wellbeing for me, as adults can be just as immature as teens.

when i was 16, i kinda dated a 13 yr old for 6 months, Not GF, but just hanging out. and all my friends laughed at me and called me pedo. So i quickly stopped hanging out with her. Then when i was 20, i went to uni. And a 28 yr old girl hit on me hard. She kept making advances for sex. and i kept pushing her away, and told her, only wanted sex with a girl im dedicated for a family to, not just for fun. So she came over with a shit tone of alcohol, got me supper drunk, and we did the deed. So much regret, never touched any alcohol again. and my friend kept laughing at me saying i got raped....... (which i think is kinda stupid, i had a laps in judgment, and i should have seen what she was doing when she brought over the alcohol. but i was to innocent.) She also had a 30 yr old BF, which was another reason i didn't wanna get close to this girl. + she said she was raped 3 times before. So ive checked out both the high and low. Both situations have scared me away from going out of my age bracket ever again hahaha

Every person is different. For me I'd say a rough guide is about 10 years either way, though some 19 year olds are more mature than some 35 year olds so there are exceptions.

@Sad Otaku Oof, that is harsh. Don‘t give yourself the fault for it. It WAS rape from her side and she shouldn‘t even have tried to intoxicate you. She definitely stepped over -your- boundaries and took what she wanted, which basically is the definition of rape. You were young, so it‘s normal to trust an adult and young people are easily impressed by everything an adult presents. For the story with the 13 year old girl... When there isn‘t any sexual going on, you‘re not a pedo. It was just 3 years of difference and when kids can get along, all‘s fine. When I was 12 I primarily hung out with my brother‘s friends, who all were 17 or older, one even was 19 to that time. That didn‘t make them pedos. After all they were just hanging out and taking care of me, so nothing can happen to me. Like a squad of big brothers. So don‘t worry about it, you didn‘t do anything wrong.