"I'll Be Gone For..Well..A while."

Sit back and relax, this might be much, but I need.. Help.. Really badly. Well, there was this guy. He lives in Georgia and well.. I met him off this website, to me he was my best best friend, I loved him with all my heart, and I actually did love him. After a year of being friends, we actually started to go out. After like.. Two months, things started to change a bit, we got into a fight because apparently I'm bad at communicating; when I even tell him I'm busy that day. He wants me to put EVERYTHING, and when I say everything, I mean EVERYTHING on hold. When I'm at basketball practice, he still expects me to text him. And that annoys the hell out of me. How he is so dependent, insecure, paranoid, demanding, and over all very rude. But for some reason, I just can't say no to him. So the other day, he was feeling down about something I don't know, since he doesn't tell me anything, and I got a text from him saying that he was going to be gone for a while. Now, I haven't spoken to him in four days. And for some reason.. I don't miss him, is that a bad thing? I mean.. I love him but I sort of wish he doesn't come back.. I could tell you all the small details that made me feel like this, but it would go over into a long chapter book. But the question/plead for help is; should I just call it off, and move on? Or wait for him.. If I move on.. I can start over and fix my emotional damage.. But if I wait. Then it will be the same bull shit I'm beginning to lose in?

Is hard to say something or give advice in this type of situation. I can tell you maybe this guy is taking some time to think. Or maybe he thinks you will miss him. Is hard to say what's going through his mind. But if you feel that his not important in your life and that you don't feel the same for him any more. Then maybe is not meant to be. Maybe all the constant questioning is what killed your feelings towards him. Just make it clear to him and don't sugar coat anything. If you have no desire to pursue anything with him that is. Really it all falls back on how you feel. You should only be with someone you want to be with. If that person doesn't make you happy is best to go separate ways. Trying to rescue a relationship that doesn't bring you joy or happiness is hopeless and ends up hurting people more in the end. That's my take on it.

First and fore most, you need to care for yourself and what you need from a relationship. Someone who is co-dependent will only tear you down and I feel you would be better off with someone who as able to stand on their own two feet while also providing what you both need from the relationship. A confidant supportive partner will be better than a leach.

man that is a tough one. just from my experience guys who want to know everything but tell you anything are not that trusting of who they are with. to make a relationship work you do not need to know what they are doing 24/7 as long as you trust the other person. i think that maybe give him a quick text, make it simple, like "hey" or something else simple. that way it opens him up to start the conversation.

I think you should drop him doesn't sound like he's in the same mental maturity as you. Maybe try and stay friends if he can't handle that then forget it there I'm sure there will be other relationships in your near future that will feel better and fell like your more on the same level as the person. Real that's the best situation for a relationship when both parties are on the same level and have equal respect for each other. If your busy your partner should respect that and know what's up and you should both be on the same level of needs he sounds like he feels he needs a lot more than you do and that he doesn't even do what he asks you to do if he doesn't keep you up on anything that's going on with him. All that aside if your not sad or upset to see him go that really says it's time to break it off you obviously don't have the same feelings you did before. :/ hope this helped.