Communication Balance

Well, first off; In guy speech, the way he was using the word "Shit" wasn't literal, but rather meaning something along the lines of "Stuff". For example, when one of my friends asks if I sense anything in the area, and I sense a lot of non-human spiritual entities, I will generally say "Yeah, there's a lot of shit here." Now as for the part where he said fuck off, it sounded like you hit a nerve there. Like its not cool on his part, I'm in no way excusing him. But I don't know. He might feel things are moving too fast, he might have trouble speaking from the heart and get hyper defensive about it, or maybe he's stressed out about something. I don't know the guy so I can't say. If you're looking for who's right or wrong, I can't answer that. Like clearly I wouldn't be cool if someone treated me the way he treated you, but I can only speak from my own read on the situation, and I confess I don't know enough to give an affirmative answer.

He sounds defensive as hell. I mean he could apologoze to you, but he might have had some past problems in his family when it comes to "marriage" related subjects.