Why?!

Why is it that everyone that is a match (On my matches page) has been inactive for several months? Does the site not regulate matches by activity at all?

The matches are sorted by your anime list, conventions, and location. I have been here for quite some time now and as far as I have seen it is never measured by activity. Also my matches page is pretty much the same as well.

Oof. Man, all I wanted was to find a nice gal, but all I'm getting are guys who don't even check my profile hitting on me.

Ah sorry to hear that. I know the pain, lots of people don't check the profiles here. Don't worry though, there are still some good people here that do check profiles, so I'm sure you'll find someone soon enough. Just have to sort through it all.

I think they just dont update it to force people to buy premium -.-

To my knowledge premium doesn't fix that. It is updated if someone new joins that has more anime or the other above mentioned criteria that matches yours. I've seen mine change several times but still most of the matches are made up of inactive users.