I don't really talk about it and here's why.

Talking about why I'm single. My father always ask me this and gives me a lot of crap for it. And this is brought up a lot, so I hear it so much it just bothers me. That's all I can really think of right now of things that bother me. I'm certain there are more. But it's pretty late and my brain is starting to shut down on me.

Oh my, I understand so well the dad asking why you're single and the coworkers thing. It makes me feel like an antisocial jerk but I avoid conversation with some people because I can tell we're very different kind of people and our conversations would be lectures about what I should do or I should change. I mean, yeah doing new stuff and experimenting is a good advice but I don't wanna go to a bar with coworkers and get drunk. I don't even drink. Talking to them more than I need to for work just meet my expectations. It's a similar thing with classmates but it's more hit or miss. Some of them I can actually discuss and even if we don't have the opinion, we agree to some points or get a "but I understand what you mean and why you like that better". Some of them get pissed and just keep asking "why don't you like that movie? It's so good! It's inhuman to not like this movie!" Dad is always so eager to know I'm a good son that get some pussies, maybe he wanna brag about it to his friends or something? I always seem to deceive him because he was expecting me to make him proud and it's like the only important thing to him. I can see his concern when his child is still a virgin at 24 but if it worries him so much, why doesn't he do more than asking me if I got a bitch in my life? Why doesn't he sit down and have one of those "talks" with me and ask stuff like what is my type of girl, what I'm looking for, do I have any crush? He doesn't need to be super wise or have some really deep advice to give, just showing that he cares.

My father is more of a "if she is hot then you have to get with her" kind of father. He is more concerned about their looks rather than who they are as a person. I myself am 21 and still a virgin, and my father flips out about it. And while I'm not really hyped about the whole "gotta have sex thing". Not saying I wouldn't do it, but if I did I would want it to be with someone I truly care about. I personally feel it would be more meaningful that way. So to sum it up real quick. I think my father just feels I'm gonna be a hermit or something if I don't get out and date now. Maybe I'm exaggerating, but that's how I feel about it.