zerofucksgiven

this is a serious topic and I know that a lot of people would consider this a non serious topic but literally I feel like there is a lot of people that say they care they care they care but at the end of the day 0 shits are given. Like for example if you help out a friend when they really need it they are thankful but when you need help they give no real help at all besides cheap pick me up that you could hear from literally anyone.... See that zerofucksgiven. And if you're still not convinced then when someone is going through a serious situation and they really need advice and you give it to them but the end up doing the exact opposite of what they said they were going to do when you talk to them... See that zerofucksgiven. I know that a lot of people would say that there are a lot of good people out there and yes there are but then there are those ignorant and Petty people who literally get on my nerves to the point where I have to literally say my peace on social media just so I can get my voice out and heard and get lectured as if I'm talking to a five year old. Seriously times have truly changed and not for the better if I do say so. I want to know your impression on this whole zerofucks movement in this day and age? or are you one of those people that would totally ignore what's going on around you and let bad shit happen to you even after someone tells you?

I mean I don't like to help unless I know I actually can, otherwise I try to leave things alone. But I also have no friends so....

I appreciate your honesty as I feel that way all the time since I literally had two screw-ups for parents so I literally understand what it means to look at the world and wonder what the fuck is going on. I know that I'm a lot of people have those moments where they wonder why didn't they listen but then there are those people that said oh I have a good life right now but when their impression on good is truly terrible.

seriously I could be the nicest guy in the world and help people by giving them something to drive off of and even could you give us to a million people and then more than all of the people that I give my wisdom two would end up either dead or doing something stupid. like literally it feels like people giving me the finger and making it seem like nobody was there for them and I was that person that was there for them the most and that pisses me off more than anything as I'm always there to listen to somebody's problems but people can't expect me to literally be everybody Superman all the time and literally watch over them like their children.

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｡^‿^｡In real life, I will not help them unless they hope I help them. Some independent people no matter how difficult their situation is don't feel like involving other people in so as not to be a bother. If they want my assistance and I am able to live up to their expectations, I will say Yes. People in my circles of acquaintances are grateful individuals, not to mention those friends online and offline. We have an old saying : 滴水之恩，涌泉相报.We all keep that in our minds and hold gratitude waiting for the chance to repay our 恩人.

Most excellent. I am just done trying to help people because mostly everybody thinks that I'm just a dumb guy that went to special classes when I was younger but now that I'm older I'm much wiser than I was when I was younger when I knew more when it came to this topic then other kids my age.

@Enki, I'm like that. I hate when people try to help me when I don't need help. I know my limits and I have no problem asking for help if I see a task is too difficult, dangerous or whatever. If I don't ask for help, it's simple. I don't need help... But I know peoples who ask for help for no real reasons. Probably wants attention or emotionnal support while doing chores. I don't mind, but it hurts my "efficiency mentality" when I'm asked to help, but nothing is going faster or becomes easier. It's just wasting two person's time instead of one. There are also those who never ask for help when they actually need it, then complains that nobody is helping them. I'm sorry, but if you're not able to say "help", it's because you don't really want to be helped and want to fail and complain that you're alone in the whole world.