Ghosted

I do hope people can let me know why they vanish before they vanish XD.Leaving is their right, I'd rather not deprive them of this right!But I want TRUTH.Their words will benefit my self-improvement.

Though for a more serious answer, I...actually have never really been ghosted. It's always been the other way around for me. I've mainly just ghosted people I don't really speak to or don't feel a connection with. But there have been people who made me uncomfortable or just irritated me with their existence enough to want to ghost them. For instance, there were quite a few emotionally manipulative and toxic people who came into my life that I ghosted as soon as I started noticing them trying manipulative tactics with me. There also were people who I generally just felt were obnoxious that I ended up cutting out of my life as soon as I no longer had the obligation to deal with them. As for the ones who made me uncomfortable, I did end up having to ghost on one girl who tried forcing me into a relationship with her with threats of suicide and stuff. It just freaked me out because I had literally just met her a few days before that. There was also another girl who I later learned liked me that was really persistent at trying to talk to me and be around me despite our conversations being really boring and standard since I didn't really feel I had anything in common with her. Me being absolutely savage and dense at the same time, I ended up basically ignoring and avoiding her to the point I just ghosted completely since she'd constantly message me too to see what I was up to. :u

@otakaiser! The third paragraph of yours reminded me of this : https://www.instagram.com/p/BrvRWnTF-C-/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet they fall for you quickly,they forget you quickly too.I suppose playing with them would be fun lol.

I learned the hard way and realize when you are being ghosted it's not worth the effort trying to get someone back. Cut them out of your life, if they had a problem with you they should have stepped up and said something. Life is short, if they are willing to cut you out now over something petty then they will not be there for you when you really need them. Fu** them, they're not worth your time.

I’ve done my fair share of ghosting and been ghosted plenty of times. I generally ghost when the conversation just isn’t interesting. If it’s just one word replies or generic responses that are the same every single day it’s boring. I also just tend to push people away sometimes when I’m hurting or upset and just forget to respond back when I’m feeling better. It really hurts to feel like you get along great with someone though and have them ghost you and never give you an explanation. It eats away at me because I don’t know what I did so I don’t know what I should change to be a better person for next time.

usually its mutual ghosting, we both get bored of talking and just stop i am horrible with replying to people on discord, but i still plan on talking to them so i wouldnt consider that ghosting

People may believe I ghost them but someday when I feel energetic enough I will go back to the conversations!I'm in contact with online friends I made in 2013 when I actually started to use social websites! But if that person believe they are ghosted by me and remove me, what a pity, the 縁 comes to an end.