Dealbreakers

I don't have many, but the ones I do have are probably common. No poly, no drugs, no smoking. The latter isn't a moral issue, but a health issue, for myself as much as for my lady. I'm overly sensitive to cigarette smoke physically. Sends me into a coughing fit from second hand real fast. That, and I nearly lost a family member to her smoking. She survived and hasn't smoked since, so that's very good news.

1: Being in the "wrong crowd" and/or partaking in "wrong crowd" activities 2: Dogmatic (Any religion or political ideology) 3: Full blown Commie, Nazi, or Anarchist type. 4: Manipulative 5: Morbidly obese and/or over-indulgent in general 6: Inability to be independent 7: Disrespectful to friends and family 8: Dishonest 9: Severe mental illness to the point of instability, or proven to be a danger to others 10: Trans

Drugs, Not having a sense of humor, And if they don't like pets, they gotta go.

Lamby, Please elaborate on Rude as it can mean many things XD, As there are many levels of uncouth behavior. That is understandable, Though unfortunately many flirt without realizing it(I've done this far more often recently than I'd admit.). Again, Understandable a relationship with only one person being supportive would be terrible. It takes two to make a relationship work, Agreed. I never even thought about that one, Also another good point, Animals ftw XD. Baka, Yikes, I can understand that. I've known multiple habitual liars, and none I'd like to date. Trust being a core aspect of relationships. Damn right I'm not a stone wall, More steel XD, But Understandable. It's important to open up to your SO after all. You're not false advertising Bud, everyone can have whatever Rules for relationships, even if other's seem them as unreasonable. Great part about them, Complete freedom. I can see why you'd think Commitment is scary, A lot of people have problems with it, and seeing how you've been lied to often before, I can see where the roots may of started at, All I can say is take your own advice, Don't build a stone wall, and be afraid to let people in. While many don't, there are just as many people who deserve to be let in. Laughing, Closeminded, I can get behind this. Fundamentalist in which way, just any ideology or religion or specifics? Really is there a reason submissiveness is a big no for you? Is it because you yourself are more on that side, or just something you dislike heavily? Personally it all depends on how they are submissive for me, but wouldn't be a breaker for me. Interesting take as always though. You know it, Not any fun without any stakes in it. Understandable, won't go anywhere without a job. Yikes, that wouldn't even make it to relationship status with me, I'd of scared them off before we even got to the first date XD. That is an important lesson for many, Loveless relationships only waste time and hurt everyone who get involved, So, agree 100%. But what about HE-MAN, Every man is the Dah Hulkin of Thor, or something, Men like showing how tough they are, Got to get into the salty splatoon somehow, Still trying to get my membership card for it. Agree on both those points. Honestly over my half my conversations turn sexual like I have some skyrim marker in the top corner of my eyes, I just like to have fun too much, But I can understand if one didn't like this, so understandable. Oh definitely, Relationships are the toughest pact known to man, with some of the lowest success rate with how many go after them, Right next to America oil companies and my number of days without banging into something. Whisp, I can understand both of those. Kratos, What are you doing here! Shouldn't you be out killing Gods, or Teaching the Boy whether to use protection? XD. I can understand those, Not personally against smoking though. I've grown up with it all my life, I know the smell anywhere, but I'm completely immune to getting into fits from it. Not something I'd ever do however, and we'd need to talk around it so we're both happy. Smoking can cause damage to the kiddos so, I won't be able to compromise there. Smoking has a 10% fatality rate after all. (Like no smoking around babies or while pregnant ect.) Overall understandable breakers. Beherit, First off. Seeing your name makes me want to thrash violently, While screaming about demons and griffins. Second,overall understandable reasons. Bleh, the wrong crowd definitely, Something I've come to realize is if you hate their friends, odds are it won't work out, and there's something they have in common with them whether it be outright noticeable or not, Fully agree. Dogmatic, Elaborate please, Are there any specific ideologies that get your gears grinding? Those three are some of mine XD, but gotta try to be nonbias. Fucking hell brother, can't agree with this enough, Do not have time for the stress of Manipulatives, especially with how condescending they can be. I think we know my views on this one as it's up there with mine, in other words, I COMPLETELY DISAGREE.... Expert manipulation right there. I can understand this, but please elaborate, As there are levels of dependency I imagine we can deal with or can't, as there are so many of them. Disrespectful how? Personally if they didn't disrespect them somewhat I'd be disappointed, after all how can one enjoy the jokes I make of my mentally insane Aunt if they won't make them themselves. Dishonesty is the destruction of all bonds, whether they be friendship or relationships, Agreed. Agreed, I wouldn't want to be around someone like that, let alone put that curse on my children. Again, Overall agree, but is there a specific reasoning behind it? Gyrobax, Agreed. Obviously if they don't love your lords and lieges the relationship will never work out long term. You're a good knight my good man, Your nobility and royals appreciate it greatly I'm sure.

There is nothing wrong with doing things in moderation. I smoke weed from time to time. I also do mushrooms. I am a teacher and a business owner. I would be more concerned with liars and cheaters. The last girl I went out with cheated on me after I asked her to marry me. So lying is a big dealbreaker.

Leo.. by fundamentalist i mean the religious fundamentalist! I dont mind religious people, totally cool with them.. but if you believe in the literal meaning of your scriptures without questioning anything even if what you are believing is wrong.. then that shuts me off. Yes submissiveness irl shuts me off (dont confuse it with sex), not because i am more on that side.. tbh i am more on dominant side. But because i want someone of my equal or above in terms of dominance and so i need them to be dominating/normal to cope up with me! If they let me do whatever i want then not only are they risking their life (lol) but also it bores me out. Infact i am okeh with submissive girls, but overly submissive is what i dislike.

Egocruz, Never said anything about weed, I don't personally use the stuff myself, But When I say Major drugs, I mean Heroine, Meth, Crack, ect. As long as you're not the Alcoholic of Weed, than I do mind that much. Dishonesty, and especially cheating is an instant Get rid of sign for me, so I agree there. Megadrei, Fair enough brother, I just never expected an answer based solely on smell XD. Laughing, Fair enough. Personally I'd call that a close minded individual, but you could make that argument based on any ideology, not just religious(Political in America is especially bad at this.). I wasn't saying you weren't dominate, but something I've come to notice is often more timid men prefer more timid women, That's just generalizing, however. What about Timid women do you dislike, and what are you okay with about them?