Should more girls take the initiative these days?

Just don’t be a beta make Become a chad and help your fellow dudes *Dab* This is coming from an extremely picky person *Double Dab*

Honestly, after finding out how many girls used to have crushes on me that I didn't notice, I think it would help. But I also think men should learn how to read the signs better. Nobody taught me these things in life. I learned. And I'm still learning.

I agree w/ the last 3 words yasshat put down. "just be you".

Never, Which encompasses nothing of what I said. And on that note, I agree with the last three words tea said. Just jerk off.

Yeeah, the statement sounds nice and all, but... it's incomplete. If you're going to be 'just you', you damn better take responsibility for the fruits of your actions and not turn into a whiny bitter little kid, crying about how the world is unfair and evil, because no one likes you. If you want to be 'just you', and you see no reason for change, so be it, but commit to it fully. On the other hand, the more fruitful approach would be be observe yourself, notice your innate tendencies, understand them and the reasons for them, observe what effects it has on people around you, think about why that is and what you're willing to change to achieve different results. Learn from those around you and from looking into yourself and move forward. But... that requires quite a bit of distance to yourself and... that's not really something that comes easy xd