About smalltalk/deeptalk

I just wanted to know what you think about smalltalking/deeptalking, what do you think? I'm honestly more into deep conversations but I've been told smalltalking is the way in every friendship or date so I've grown to it. I'm a bit in a rush when I'm typing this so sorry if I didn't give much details. I'll be sure to answer your questions if you have any!

@Muggleborn Ah I understand, used to be very anxious before but I've learned that being literally yourself is the best way. It'll probably take some time to get over the anxiety but it's worth to do your best even if you feel anxious. Try being open with your best friends or even yourself when you're alone.

Both smalltalk and deeptalk are good in friendships or relationships 'cause smalltalk allows you to talk about meaningless things which allows you to bond with the person without too much pressure or anything, and with deeptalk you can get into some really interesting conversations which further deepen that bond. So probably a steady balance between the two is good.

I feel like both is necessary because there is a time for deep conversation and there's a time for small conversation as everybody has a life outside of the internet so things happen. But if there is literally no possible reason why the person is not talking to you then it's literally not meant to be as even in friendships there are times where a friend should be able to look at you as a friend that will always be there and not someone that will just comment to you just to have you as a possible resource.

@blissfullforce1818 I can partly relate. For me it's the transition between "smalltalk" to "deeptalk" I'm having most trouble with. Girls usually lose interest when I miss the transition and I always repeat the same mistake.

Smalltalk is boring to me, I rarely do smalltalk..however many people cannot follow my deeptalk(I'm best at deeptalk) :P....