Sexuality 25yrs ago vs now

Exposure to sexuality is another big difference. I have friends that started watching hardcore porn online as young as 7 or 8 and regularly by 10. The most porn I was exposed to at 10 was a friend who stole his dad's Playboy magazine to show us. But sex itself was still somewhat mysterious to us. Now kids have massive exposure to the most extreme and least romantic forms of sexuality. I suspect that it appears unappealing in the romantic sense because it's not shown that way. Particularly to girls. It only appeals to the lust mechanism and that gets burnt out pretty quick from the massive dose of sexuality available online to anyone. That combined with people not knowing how to interact as well with each other IRL since most time is spent online where people can hide their real identities to an extent and be more who they want to be which decreases their confidence IRL as they can't hide behind as much as a persona as they are used to and assume people won't like them.

That is a thing. Children should let be children. Enjoy play and learning compared easy exposure to adult related stuff and behaviour, not just sexual things.

@koyomi i think you hit the nail on the head there. pretty much all that applies to me. however im still sexually interested. however i have noticed i am less and less really interested in a lot of sexual stuff so i got burnt out on the extreme stuff. except for some specific stuff. also i dont know how to interact irl as you well know. like with shoe girl lmao rest in puppies shoe girl, wherever she has gone since that day.

1. Biology has changed. More men have fewer sperm counts and are more like women. 2. Modern culture and social expectations have shifted. Men want to be like men but it's looked down upon and so many opt out. Others continue playing the game but want to find "that one". They won't settle for anyone less than ideal why should they. 3. People's idea of attractiveness has opened up. Do to the internet more people can search for that very specific person. They don't have to settle for that high school girl or college person. They don't want to commit to a temporary relationship and want to stay open so if they happen to find the one they are free. 4. The things you see and feel about your surroundings could just be anecdotal experiences. Meaning it's just limited you to and for all we know what you feel and see is not the case in reality. I haven't looked into it so just take this one with some salt. 5. People aren't the only target for people to release sexual drive to. The need to have and engage in sexual acts could be going down to people finding this that satisfy that need and it not even be sexual. People are busy and are engaging with the world way more then they did a few years ago. Distractions can lead to a lower drive for sex. 6. Maybe people are still highly sexually active and they just keep it to themselves. 7. This is the only real scientific data I know of which is the most likely reason contributing to the decline. On top of (reason # 1.). This is just part of the population growth and human's natural instincts. Demographers have had *Strong* data that shows birth rates falling with a better lifestyle and economy. Kids are expensive and 1st world people live a lot longer then they used to. So if you live longer and life is good then the biological stress o' meter won't go off as much. We haven't been growing exponentially but at a steady slow rate. This will continue until the day we don't need to have kids at all. So in short longer life and tech = less sex drive to have kids which = fewer kids. We are just following our own programming at the end of the day just like every animal does.

generally about 90% of people have some form of depression and it's killing off sexual desire. honestly, i really couldn't give less of a fuck about sex. also there's already this many people on the god damn planet we don't need any more

maybe we do. if we dont have kids we will die off or have babies in a artificial ways. if we dont die another way first

they say the more powerfull group takes over. like how indians died off because we killed them. aliens are probably planing it all out to take over. first they got to find out about how they can be like us and that takes thousands of years.they are smart but dont have a lot of things we have. maybe its good. it not what i want because if we are given the chance and left alone and have better environments we can evolve into something better. then humans and aliens would live together.

Siru, I need whatever it is that you're smoking. Yes, Actually, the average family size has declined. We're not in some kind of over population boom, just a "How do we use our resources better?" phase. Most of the earth is not populated (Yes, the oceans count.)and really, there are ways to make sure everyone has plenty to eat, it's just a world ran by money/politics and those things don't typically care about lives.