Can People Just Stop Being Creepy and Hostile

If you are harassed by anyone you do what you need to do to make it stop. If the reported, pathetic creep (PC) continues to bother you, then you Omarosa them and post it. "Hey everyone. This person has harassed me multiple times and they won't stop." It's that simple.

Not exactly. It's a touchy subject. Sometimes people feel that they are being harassed when they really aren't because they can't understand the situation very well possibly due to issues like poor social skills. In those cases publicly blasting someone can just create drama and a Witch Hunt or if you just assume that it's true without evidence then people could take advantage of that just to ruin other people. It's kind of a touch-and-go thing. I'm on both sides of the fence. I don't want public drama started but at the same time mentioning it publicly is the best way to let everybody know who not to interact with. What Charles said is correct and he's not wrong about it. His phrasing if I remember correctly is that it's unprofessional to publicly do it. Right wrong or indifferent, it's still unprofessional. Sometimes you need to be unprofessional but he's not wrong for what he said if I remember the proper phrasing.

Anyway one of the biggest problems is that people just ignore or block the person but don't report the problem and then they don't talk about it until after the problem has been taken care of later on down the line when three or more different victims show up in one of them finally has the courage to speak about it.

@Kichi when you word it like that, yes it was hypocritical of me to say, and I'll own up to it But I want to try and clarify things first tho: - there are correct ways steps to dealing this: telling a friend and reporting the creep to a mod - the second part where I did say "I'd love to expose these people outright for their shitty behavior" was just me saying how I personally felt about it when these things happen, though it's just the wrong approach to take - I'm not trying to defend these rodents that harass the people - I do want the victim to speak out when this happens, I don't want to silence them some people do take the advice to report the creepers to a Mod, and some don't because they dont want to cause drama or that they can handle it (they have said this before) "I don't want public drama started but at the same time mentioning it publicly is the best way to let everybody know who not to interact with. What Charles said is correct and he's not wrong about it. His phrasing if I remember correctly is that it's unprofessional to publicly do it. Right wrong or indifferent, it's still unprofessional." yes thanks Kid

Trashcan kid You don't get to determine how someone else feels. If you ask someone an innocent question and the response is "leave me alone, stop harassing me" that's it. You fucking stop talking to that person and leave them alone. End of story. Just because YOU think your were innocent in your endeavor doesn't mean that whomever you were attempting to talk to agrees or see it your way or even has to. This is like victim blaming a rape victim. "What were your wearing? Were you drunk? You must've said something" etc... You lot are really pushing it. You want to do things without having to deal with the consequences. This is exactly why you all sound pathetic to me.

Talking about being professional. You're on this site looking for love... There's nothing professional about that. Leave that crap at home.

Can't believe I'm typing this... I agree with siru. You in the wrong forum if you think anything about this site is professional