Tips on finding a real life husbando or waifu?

yeah I know that a lot of us have been asking this question time and time again but only to ourselves and not trying to ask the real questions in the main question of being here which is how do you find a waifu or husbando in the real world? I'm not talking about going after somebody that looked like Ronald Weasley from Harry Potter or going after a girl with big eyes and too much makeup as I'm asking how do you find a husband or waifu? this is not just for me as I want to ask these questions so others can benefit from it instead of asking for a waifu or has been doe when the answer is could be right here and you just didn't know. So write down your opinions and ideas.

Be yourself unless your a dangerous psychopath; you can't live your life pretending to be someone else that gets tiring trust me I have first hand experience.

Keep living your life, talk to people, and don't try to be something your not to make someone/people like you, like Match said.

I don't even have a friend. I'm no good with people. If I ever talk to people, they just stop talking to me eventually. Even tho I want someone in my life, it's easier to be alone and do what I love with out anyone nagging me.

I'm pretty sure that a waifu or husbando is considered a anime Crush so many people have those that it's literally crazy.