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sadjester
Huh, gym and exercise in a manga. Looks great. * _ *
thesailingteacup
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kameiya
Start out saying hi and be cool and calm and talk as if I'm talking to a friend. It's easier for me to converse with a guy who approaches me like that. Ask to be friends, then after a while try the dating approach once there is a comfortable bond.
wasistdas
Posion his bf secretly Try to be the hero Goes to the funeral with her How would you date?
lynesis
May 13, 18 at 10:50am
I often stay silent, mind my own business and stray away from the group/people. However, I don't reject anyone who tries to talk to me. Whenever there is a group project, that is where I get to know some of my classmates, and they get a chance to talk to me. I often get along really well with everyone in the group since I like to encourage them for their work or reassure them by saying just do what you can or do your best and giving suggestions. Afterwards, I quickly distance myself away from them and end up staying as strangers. (Somehow many people do remember my name, whereas I know not one person in my program their name, including professors... I have a brain that forgets thing within 5 seconds.) They all probably think of me as a weird Lonewolf and tend to just leave me alone. To approach a someone like me, I would continuously talk to that person, sit with that person and be with that person. I tend to stay around/near within the view sight of a person that I like/comfortable with and hoping to be noticed or approached. The more you spend your time with that person, the more connected your relation become. Once that person starts following you like a dog, you got the person's heart.
mkraft
Pretty much the same what Lynes said. The more you get to know me the deeper the connection and interaction. To add to it. In here I tend to think a bit too much of what I'm going to say, so I just end up not saying anything at times (text based format and checking what I wrote before posting it etc). But I do answer to everyone who posts/messages to me. So check my info. If that does not scare away then get to know me whatever way is easier. Maybe ask about the Teamspeak thing if speaking is more easier to you in this regard. At some point when things seem to go forward then step by step go more personal. I'm not in a rush so you don't need to be either. If I feel some interest/connection building then I focus on that and not turn to another person. IRL it would be a bit easier. Talking irl generally flows better and I don't have that much time to think what I'm going to say. So I end up being more open that way. And again after getting to know me after a while hint at it whatever way seems natural to you. For both. I'm not a mind reader so taking that most crucial step should be clear. But that might come from me if there are signs of it going well. Looking for that rest of life partner, so not rushing things is my way now.
whispywoods
Even though I posted the image joking, when I think about it, in a metaphoric sense it kinda fits. Unless I'm interested first, if I would like to honestly approach me It would be necessary to be insistent on the interactions to create some sort of bond, otherwise I end not caring and distance myself. It aligns well with what Lynes said. Interacting when it's necessary, I distance myself, and that people just becomes acquaintances. I'm a pain in that sense I guess. I know it already cost me in the past.
alfuh
May 13, 18 at 12:28pm
Does this rag smell like Chloroform? Gets me head-over-heels every time
cac
May 13, 18 at 1:57pm
Just try to talk and be friendly, right now I'm pretty down on things so it has to be drug out of me. But after that just smother me lol.
reinhardt76
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