Please join if you are being bullied

It's kinda curious. Kids and teens always seems to dislike the different, not being part of the mob, but later, when they grow up, everyone wants to be the "different" and special person among others. For people going through that, everything may seem hopeless, but things will be better for sure... just staying true to themselves.

I feel impotent knowing someone going through that >.> ...I can only wish you the best. But things will be better, that's the only thing I can say for sure. After high school, you win and you can start your life.

People bully to look cool and powerful, despite it having the opposite effect on anyone mature since to us they look childish and pathetic. Sadly at your age, immature children who are brought up incorrectly don't understand how bad this will make them look in the future. It is also the fear of being bullied themselves, they have to look superior to avoid it. Sadly there isn't much we can do to help you other than comfort you and allow you to talk to us about it. I hope you know almost everyone on MO will be there to support you and the bullies grow up with the guilt when they come to terms with how terrible they are or they fail in life. Edit - @puppylover11 and @Enki You should never stop being nice, remember a beautiful flower can still grow out of harsh environments. e.g. Saxifraga it is really pretty despite growing in tundra, which I found really wonderful

Shit, I wish I could go back in time just to fuck up my bullies but then again, because of that bullshit I became what I am now. Instead of being that pussy self I was back then, I stop taking bullshit from people and value myself. I'm not saying other bully victims are wuss and such, just myself since I grew from it and just looking back. Everyone handle things different but that doesn't make anyone less than another. Talking about that issue with others isn't what to be ashamed of. Pain is pain. Talk about it with someone. The more you just let it sit there, the more it will consume you.

Mine was verbal. Fortunately two of them were in Different states or country. The final thing I did was cut them out of my life. Stay away from them. Block them. Ask my friends to keep them out of my life cuz they were friends with them too. If it is in person tale the initiative muffin mentioned with it. Also, once you are able to cut them out of your life don't think about them or what they did. That's bringing your mind back to the past of it and it does still torture you if you think about it. Thinking about still brings up those bad memories. Mentally move forward as well.