Red flags

What are some red flags you've come across while getting to know people? Things that make it clear this is not only probably not gonna work out, but that this is a person you might want to stay far away from?

People who instantly says to contact them via email or another personal account outside of mo. Guys who asks for my pic, but then complains and make excuses to why I should change my no to a yes. Wants to cuddle right off the bat or a higher level of physical contact even if it's through text.

A close-minded person, if you're not open to other things how are we even supposed to experience new things or better ourselves. It's also fun trying new things even if they end up being something we don't enjoy. I also value honesty over my feelings, so I wouldn't like it if someone was being nice just to save me from being hurt.

Strangers who ask for my selfies, or have voice chats/video chats with me. Strangers who have superiority complex. Strangers/Acquaintances who attempt to seduce me by words+emoticons+photos meanwhile think I don't see through their tricks. Fellow Chinese who start the first conversation in a way similar to checking my identity, "your name, your hometown, your age, your parents' jobs, your job, your degree, your major, your salary, your siblings, height and weight"..๑乛㉨乛๑.. Yellow fever.

A big one for me is people who are overly serious all the time. I have a very bubbly personality and I like to make people laugh and smile so downers and buzzkills are people I REALLY don't gel with in the slightest and are people I often clash the most with. I don't mind it when people are blunt and straight to the point but when that's all they are to the point where they almost lack a sense of humour or their jokes end up being more mean-spirited but I just don't even bother talking to them anymore. They might be nice people in their own right but if I don't feel any friendly connection then I just stop talking to them fullstop. I guess this is especially prevalent now since I managed to get back in touch with a great friend of mine I've known for nearly 3 years now after she disappeared for a few months and before she used to be so nice, sweet and insanely fun but now she's been through so much shit and has changed so much where her personality is the total opposite where she's the overly serious person now and her jokes have become pretty nasty especially when directed towards me; I don't appreciate that one bit. So yeah - that's an incredibly frustrating and difficult situation for me. Hopefully she cheers up eventually but if not and that's just how she is from now on then I'll just have to consider cutting her off altogether because I really cannot deal with people like that, it's too stressful for me.

Lacking honesty or transparency. Lacking communication/unwilling to talk out the problems we have. ^most of this came from my ex who also then cheated on me... soo Also i want a family, so if thats not in the plan for them... red flag

Lying about little things. If they lie about little things odds are when stressed, they'll do the same because it's all they know how to do. But dishonesty in general. Not doing the things they say they'll do. How they act in conflict, if they rather just yell instead of fix the issue, that's another one. Close mindedness, There's a difference between having lines, and refusing to admit they are wrong about something. Has too many friends that are male, that she's also dated. Now one is different, but when you get into the category of having a group, there's probably a reason why she's had so many bf's in a short period of time. And it aint always good. Taking other people's sides over you. While disagreeing is fine. Outwardly taking her friends side over yours, nu uh. Bad sign. Shows lack of loyalty. There's alot of red flags, problem is most people make excuses for those they care about, so when they do show the signs. They're like, Oh that's because of this, or it doesn't matter she isn't like that, and then she's in bed with your buddies the next morning.