I'm looking for a female cosplayer who is perverted, loves hentai and generally is similar to me. + Some backstory on this.

They were either idiots or thought this would be funny. First off, women don't want to hear what you want, they want to hear what you have to offer. That said, you shouldn't blurt that out either. The key is subtlety, and you're being about as subtle as a fog horn. You've gotta establish a baseline first, put yourself out there and act friendly/normal. Keep your fetishes to yourself and just meet people, talk to them, get to know them, see if you get along. Once some trust is established, then you can tell them about whatever it is you're into and see if they're into it too. Yes it sounds like a tedious time consuming process but you can't rush romance or take shortcuts, haste makes waste. Anywho, if you want to meet girls who cosplay, it'd probably be a good idea to also cosplay and go to cosplay gatherings. Oh, and you might want to lower your expectations a tad. It sounds like you're shooting for the moon here.

Neeto is right though. Here's an opinion of a female. First, you posted this on three different forums I believe which screams either desperate or troll. Which neither is an attraction. The other thing is what neeto said, don't come out with sexual fetishes. That comes off too strong and turns people off. Try showing sides of you that isn't ran just based off your hentai desire. Are you sincere? Honest? How would you treat a girl that doesn't involve harmones? I went down half that post and got gross out. Neeto again mentioned saying that to someone you spent time talking to. If one of my friends I have talked to for a while said that now it becomes acceptable cuz I got to know the deeper part of themselves first. It's like a balance of knowing ones personality. You say you are the rushing type? Try to slow down. It might seem hard, but it would help.

OK. For future reference if it's about you wanting a gf post in the relationship thread. That's the right forum. How would you be nice to them? What other things about a girl you like? Turn offs too. In the relationship thread we actually have a thread that asks you all of this. You could try posting there as long as it follows the rules of said forum, or you can make one yourself in that forum. Show other interest you have in girls and facts about you and how you see yourself in a relationship. Stuff like that. Girls who looks for dating usually looks to that before fetishes.

lol i mean thats the point, he doesnt care about that shit if she watches anime, cosplays, and wants to smash him in those cosplays, shes probs everything he wants

Also, if you're gonna post this topic somewhere else, you should probably delete all three current versions. Or you're just 100% set in stone a spamming troll. I mean, Idk if you are or aren't, don't really care, just giving you advice that'd benefit you in either situation.