Which One Do You Prefer?

It's that attitude that annoys me the most. Secondly that you would call me a troll after starting a post with "Hey losers"! I don't give two shits about your friends dating issues but your post implies you intend to make their problem something we have to deal with.

Hm my attitude? Sounds like a personal problem there pal. Your almost 30 Years Old. Don't you have anything better to do than sit on a laptop and talk about anime? Your probably in your mom's attic bro. Nobody asked you to care. Have A Nice Day though sir!

Psh. Damn brat. Fine then, if I'm the only one that sees your initial post as an insult then I'll back off and let everyone take your damned insult. I'll be watching anime.

Ditto what Midas said, but allow me to clarify for the prior - I enjoy LDRs, probably more than I should. From my experience, LDRs are like intimate friendships. Those kind of relationships have allowed me to always have a shoulder to lean on, as well as have someone I can talk more-sensitive topics with. LDRs are really chillax, and though them I've learned to respect people's personal lives as much as their social lives. Everyone needs their 'me' time and 'us' time. I think the thing I like the most of LDRs is that they force both parties to be attentive in ways a lot of people don't expect. Both parties have to put in an equal amount of effort, in various social and non-social ways, and it shows when someone isn't. A lot of people can guess that in LDRs, people will spend time for themselves, and that's fine, just like people would in normal IRL relationships. The catch here is that in most IRL relationships, it's more likely somebody's 'me' time becomes reliant on the other party and creates problems LDRs can avoid. In LDRs it's far more difficult to become dependent on another to support your lifestyle or be your sugar daddy due to the lack of the other being physically present. That's another thing worth mentioning - I've never experienced any physical attraction problems in LDRs either. Sure, we might get funky and want to flirt with one another or be lewd, but the LDRs I've been in don't go to far past that. There's never been a question of if my partner likes me solely because of my body or physical features, which brings me some serenity knowing that's a common problem in IRL relationships today. I'd argue that LDRs bring more meaningful relationships that surpass the surface level, at least from my experiences.

I just didn't take the opening statement personally. I saw it like someone walking into a group of friends and saying "hey losers". Maybe I'm wrong and she meant it to be hurtful. I didn't see it that way.

Nope. I call everyone losers. If I offended someone then i'm sorry. But i'm damn sure not going to change the way I speak to "Please People" Merp

True love knows no distance it can't conquer -- no depths too deep to trevail. It knows no race, creed, or gender. It brings kings, queens, and peasants alike to heel. When the heart beats true, nothing will keep you from a lover's arms. It is a pure, irrevocable force of nature. Also, let's please try and keep it civil in here children. If you have a problem with another user, best to either take it up privately, or with a moderator if the situation warrants it.

I really don't care whether it's ldr or close distance, as long as the other person loves me back c: Kinda hard with the lack of gay girls on here though.

I've been in LDR before for 3 years and met during anime cons (we're in middle and high school at the time) and everything worked well until she wanted to end it because of us meeting only 2 times a year. I had another one in my early 20s but that ended because of cheating. She wasn't into anime and etc but I tried to get into her interest but it ended after 8 months. So...how I feel about LDR. I'm okay with it if we're in same state like my first relationship because it'll be easier to meet up. As far as race goes... I date both inside and outside my race but I prefer outside more. (and no not just Asian women)