The importance of Closure

Do you think that there is a significance in having closure? When you break up with someone, or if someone is being fired from a job, or even in the case of death, do you personally think that it's important to have a sense of understanding as to why? Does having closure help you? Is it important?

ofcourse it is xD it helps you understand what happened and how you could possibly improve yourself for the next time also helps zap those pesky 'what ifs' xD people who have died that were close to me died from their own means, either age or how they lived there lives and didnt get help when they needed it, so for me, i dont think getting closure int here death helped me get over it

not to my knowledge, i dont believe iv ever been asked for closure bout you?

I would love some closure but for me it like a game of tag, sometimes im it, other times im not it, but it is not intestinally but it sucks

I think sometimes "closure" is an excuse to try and say "it's not my fault" or "I did everything right". Just... sometimes. At other times people think they're doing the right thing if they leave you in the dark, and it's not right. I've had to pry some answers out of people before, and it really hurts to be forced to be in that kind of situation. There are bad things that happen that you don't need answers to, and bad things that happen that you need answers to in order to move on. You don't need closure for a lack of a 2nd date. You already have the answers. They didn't like you well enough to carry forward. But you need closure if a decade long relationship crumbles to pieces out of nowhere, under your nose. You don't normally need closure if someone died of natural causes. You need closure if someone you love was killed without warning. You may not have peace of mind, but that's a separate matter from a lack of closure.

That is true, I tend to ignore it or walk from it and it ends up ruining my mind not our relationships I guess its like putting it on pause