Would you change for the one you love?

There's a ton of things you can change for the person you love. Like learning to have manners. Leaving the toilet seat down. Changing your eating habits and exercising. Granted you can't change your core personality. You are who you are. But there's also alot of things people simply allow themselves to be. Like being lazy or messy. The question is, is it something you can change and are you willing to do it. In the past, I've changed companies I worked for as a request, and widened the variety of music I listened to. Be yourself if that's what makes you happy. But we could all use a little self improvement.

Compromising is the key to having a lasting relationship. But still, it depends on what exactly they want me to change.

@Filip, Indeed. I had an open relationship with someone at one point, and they weren't willing to compromise with my wishes, so they broke it off because of the person I am. Didn't help they lied to me about other things, but that's a different story. It's one of those things that beg for communication's sake.

As someone with a lot of... Problems and issues - I already know I need to change a lot of things about myself and my life in general but that's simply because I want to, it's to make myself happier, not because I want to suit the tastes of the girl I like. Nobody's perfect and people should stop trying to be because you just end up diluting yourself, you just become a weaker individual. If someone likes you, that's because they like you for your strengths and weaknesses. You should always be the best you can be but don't throw away what makes you, you - embrace the things you're bad at and aim to do better with what you're good at and do it because you want to. You'll change over time, we all do but remaining true to yourself is to remain true to the people you care about, if others or said person you like don't like you then they're the ones who miss out. Don't let others control who you are.

If the change is something that goes against my morals and comfort zone, then they're not worth it. Like if a guy wants me to stop wearing modest clothing or using me to pay for debts.

Why change ~? Why cant someone love you for you and how you are is perfect for them ~? If someone cant love you for who you are and how you are now, wats the point in being with them when there telling you, that you should change for the better ~ I can understand if its like hygiene or change of clothes and need a new wardrobe but when it comes to personality or feelings, its like she doesnt wanna date you for being you ~ She just wants to date you because she has this fucked up image of seeing it in like anime or movies ~ Like this should be like that, and that should be like this and you shouldnt be acting like this but that in a certain way ~ Like seriously, did you date me because its a fucking anime or do you ligitametly have feelings for me being me as a person and not an image you made me to be or want to be ~ At least thats how i see it, for a person who hates change -=-