Girls only like jerks (stop using this excuse, grow a pair and read on)

Men are typically more disagreeable than women. Not always by a lot, and not all men follow that rule, but in general that is the case. It's a trait they're encouraged to take advantage of, so they can propel themselves further in their careers, by not tolerating when they're being taken advantage of. But in terms of intelligence and conscientiousness, men and women are practically the same. Emotions aren't a separate factor, however being agreeable covers feelings of compassion and the act of nurturing, which is where most people typically feel that men lack in emotions, since they're high in disagreeableness and they treat regard themselves higher. In today's society we have quite the social phenomenon, which muddles this up a bit as a significant amount of people are trying to change themselves in ways that aren't in line with their own genetics. Instinctively women go for the providers, which genetically speaking are those disagreeable men. This is why "girls only like jerks", though it's quite a bit more complicated than that. It just means girls, on average, don't like men that let themselves be pushed around, and they want an assertive partner as compared to a docile partner, and instinctively they see success from that behavior, but perhaps not seeing all of the other determining factors in life that separate our instincts from our chances of success. Again, the social phenomenon fluctuates this quite a bit, but at it's base this remains typically true. The ones that don't follow this aren't necessarily "outliers", as it's more common than that to deviate a bit. It's just an average.

/he said she said smh arguing over somthing so petty

tl:dr got'em

Yooo I am a confident nice guy. Juuuuust saiyan. No one out there nearly as attractive as me or awesome. ;) Btw I know how to bake.

We both know how to put a bun in the oven if you catch my drift ;p Lol

Seriously though guys being confident in yourselves is the most attractive quality in a man that women look for. Just knowing what you want and not backing down in making a decision. It doesn't matter what you look like. To put it in a way that makes sense it goes to animal behavior...no female lioness is gonna want a depressed male lion who always falls behind in the pack and doubts himself, because it would lead to him dying. They want a strong leader type that can survive in any scenario for breeding purposes. Charles Darwinism at it's finest. Now fellas you need to look at yourselves in an optimist point of view. Glass water half full not empty kinda deal. If you don't like yourself then be who you feel you are and love that! Women will come to you being attracted to that newfound confidence.