Gay Guys like me more then girls

well I dont know I thought maybe there was a gay guy on here who would be able to help and I dont have real friends to ask. And even if I did I dont think they would know what to tell me.(also I dont wear a leotard and whats wrong with my hair, Tons of guys have this hair cut. I am not arguing just looking for a little more info)

well I dont know I thought maybe there was a gay guy on here who would be able to help and I dont have real friends to ask. And even if I did I dont think they would know what to tell me.(also I dont wear a leotard and whats wrong with my hair, Tons of guys have this hair cut. I am not arguing just looking for a little more info)

This is pretty ignorant. For all we know, one guy said hi to you and you think all homosexuals are after you. There is no way to tell if someone is actually homosexual by looking at them. If you think you can, you are very misguided, but such is life. I think the real question should be why does it concern you? You can just ignore it if you are not into men. Are you homophobic? Are you unsure of yourself? Maybe you should be doing some self reflection instead, so that you can overcome whatever it is that is really bothering you.

why is everyone being so judge mental How do I know they are gay well I have a conversation with them. How do I know they are attracted to me because are conversations start with them complimenting an aspect of my body (I find gay men are pretty bold lol). Am I homophobic NO I dont mind the conversations or them complimenting me. It happens on a regular basis and I want to know why gay men are so attracted to me and not girls. Because as cool as gay friends are im looking for a relationship.

I was referring to people being able to tell if YOU are gay by the way. There is no way unless you say that you are or have homosexual sex with them. Try asking women out first and stop expecting them to come to you.

Have confidence in yourself! Maybe the girls you've asked saw you being insecure and they were not ok with that? I am not sure, but in my opinion you've got to wait to meet the right people, so far you've had luck finding only the wrong ones (as in girls). Trust me, you'll find someone who likes you for who you are. =) As to why gay dudes come up to you to compliment you, I think the ones you met were bold enough to tell you what they think of you, aka the right people but not the ones you'd like. But if some girls liked you, they maybe were too shy to tell you?