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Any other asexuals?

korratheclod
My name is Kelsey. I am 27 and from IL. I am currently not working or attending school due to health issues. Sexuality: Asexual: I do not find anyone sexually attractive, but i can find them pleasing to look at(aesthetically attractive) and am not looking for a relationship that will be sexually right away. It will take time and you'll have to be patient with me. very patient. I am also Bi-curious I am a fan of RPGS, MMOs, and alots of others. I won't play mobas, war games, wow, sports or racing. (I play minecraft, teterria, Lego Star Wars TCS, borderlands 2, apocz, deadburg, dead island, resident evil 6, gta 5, and fable 2&3 on xbox 360 online. i play last of us, persona 5, and AC: black flag, farcry 3 and uncharted 1-3 on ps3 online. I also play path of exile, grim dawn, and torchlight 2 online for pc. When not gaming i watch alot of tv(Spnl, arrow, flash, TWD, GOT, OUAT, PLL, The fosters ect), anime, knit, and read. I occasionally have a drink I don't watch many movies but big into all miyazaki movies(i own the box set) and most Disney movies(minus little mermaid) I cosplay, a lot and attend conventions whenever I can Music I like Jpop, Kpop, rock, r&b, some rap, some country I'm not a cuddler but if you're worth it, it'll happen just keep your hands on my stomach :P What I am looking for: - Shy, cute, otaku/gamer, -not too busy to chat - Distance doesn't matter neither does gender, race or ethnicity - No smoking/drugs - Drinking is fine, no beer and no alcoholics - Someone who can understand my personality. I am shy and introverted and very sarcastic. I can come off as mean but if that's the case you probably offended me somehow - Not older than 32. Not younger than 18(obviously) - Good grammar - preferably another asexual or someone that understands what it means to be asexual and won't try to tell me that i'm crazy or whatever
misakinagase
I mean... Kinda...? I think...? It's kind of impossible for me to get anything above a female friend so I don't really know...
misakinagase
I do commend you for being as such. You're a better person then I in that regard.
korratheclod
I don't think I am a better person. Sexuality you're born with like everyone else, I just realized that i was and it helped me learn about a different part of myself. But most people jump to the conclusions that because you are asexual you don't like sex/have sex or are just gay/lesbian which is stupid. Asexuals CAN want sex but we are not going to find you attractive in a sexual way, we usually fall in love with someone because of their personality, heart, soul. Some do it for their partners, some do it because they enjoy it. Hope that cleared any confusion
vanessa86
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misakinagase
I never confused it for any thing.
korratheclod
i never said confused, i said some people, not all, jump to conclusions of what it means. I never said you specifically
yaasshat
Jun 04, 17 at 10:09pm
I mean no offense, but I hate all of these terms. I absolutely get being attracted to personality, but I'd think that physical attraction should play a part, even if small. I mean, does weight or physical disability play a part at all? I mean no offense, I suppose it's just confusing to people who can look at another and feel sexual attraction. Now, that's not the thing that gets me going, I do need an emotional connection, but physical attraction defiantly plays a part for me, as well.
korratheclod
why do people think physical and sexual is the same thing?
yaasshat
Jun 05, 17 at 9:16am
People don't, people didn't ask you a question on here, I did. As for this person? He understands and made it known that it's not all physical, but he doesn't understand taking the physical COMPLETELY away part and thought you could clarify from experience.
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